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Thread: Need to cancel a booked holiday, not sure how or what to write..

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    Lol thank you Melancholy, somebody else suggested the same thing
    Send, block, delete, I was thinking something similar, nothing fancy

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    Thank you Boltnrun, I think I'll do something like this...

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    Don't make up excuses about classes being the reason you can't go.

    Put on your Big Girl Pants, and be simple and direct that you are not going. You do not need to give further details. And then as the others suggested, block him. You don't need to face his wrath.

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    Keep it strictly business. If you want a refund contact the companies and see what you can do. Why contact him at all? So you give him the heads up to find another woman to take that you'll pay for. Say nothing, just don't go. Delete and block him.

    He hasn't spoken to you in over a month. Keep your emotions out of it. It's over and you don't owe him an explanation.
    Originally Posted by Lady D
    We haven't spoken for a month, he was pretty nasty the last time and said " why would I bother to call you if it wasn't about work "

    It's not the money as much as the telling him...I know I may lose the money

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    I'd try to settle the money/refund separately. I wouldn't contact him again. There's no reason to tell him you're going or not going.

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    Worrying about the possibility he may take another woman is pointless and keeps you emotionally attached to him.

    Don't bother yourself about that.

    Send the simple one or two sentence email and then block him. That's it.

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    If you are not talking, I think he would assume that you are not going.

    Leave it alone and take the loss.

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    I'm with the others, as long as you're okay with and accept that you're going to lose the money, you don't tell him anything. Unless he's really, really dumb he has already figured it out.

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    Originally Posted by Lady D
    Lol thank you Melancholy, somebody else suggested the same thing
    Send, block, delete, I was thinking something similar, nothing fancy
    You're welcome. There's no need to go into any details with this guy. You are not going, that's all he needs to know.

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    Since you already know that the guy in not going to give your money back, why bother notifying him of anything? You've been out of contact for a month, so just keep that going and move on with your life.

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