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    Feel terrible

    I feel just terrible. I miss her so much. We will never be together again. But i know i love her.

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    You’ll be okay , it sucks , just know we all have been here .

    Try to watch you-tube videos for various motivational speakers on coping

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    Do you miss her breaking up and telling you she didn't love you weekly?

    What exactly do you miss about this mess of a woman?
    Last edited by Hollyj; 10-02-2019 at 01:50 AM.

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Do you miss her breaking up and telling you she didn't love you weekly?

    What exactly do you miss about this mess of a woman?
    People are more complicated than that. It's okay to miss people even if they treated you poorly. Make sure it's temporary, though. Don't get lost in remembering only the good parts. Keep yourself distracted and don't forget the reasons the relationship fell through.

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    Focus on your own family dynamics and health. She is going through too much right now.

    Replied in your other thread: [Register to see the link]

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Do you miss her breaking up and telling you she didn't love you weekly?

    What exactly do you miss about this mess of a woman?
    I know her life was a mess... i know that sometimes she couldnt handle her life... but look whats happening to her... how could i call her crazy?? Anyone would lose their mind in a situation like this...

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    Originally Posted by Lauralatifa
    I know her life was a mess... i know that sometimes she couldnt handle her life... but look whats happening to her... how could i call her crazy?? Anyone would lose their mind in a situation like this...
    Im unable to be angry with her right now... right now i can only recall the good moments. I wish i could at least be her friend

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    Originally Posted by LikeWater
    People are more complicated than that. It's okay to miss people even if they treated you poorly. Make sure it's temporary, though. Don't get lost in remembering only the good parts. Keep yourself distracted and don't forget the reasons the relationship fell through.
    I suggest you look at her history. She posts daily about this woman, and the relationship was terrible from the very start.

    OP, you may want to consider journaling.

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    Originally Posted by Lauralatifa
    I know her life was a mess... i know that sometimes she couldnt handle her life... but look whats happening to her... how could i call her crazy?? Anyone would lose their mind in a situation like this...
    Do you usually chose relationships that are filled with so much drama and toxicity? Is this a pattern?

    She did not treat you like a friend in the relationship, what makes you think she is capable of doing that now? She also blocked you.

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    Most importantly, you cannot be friends with someone if there are feelings! She sounds like a train wreck, anyway.

    OP, this is more about you, and who YOU choose to involve yourself with.

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