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Thread: Heís 9 Years Younger and I Donít Know What Iím Doing

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    At 18 he has a LOT of growing up to do. It's very unlikely that anything good could come out of this attraction. Imo, befriending him would be playing with fire and wasting your time and energy. Due to being so young, at some point he would end up letting you down one way or the other.

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    I wouldn't even connect with him via the game because in the blink of an eye something could be taken the wrong way and you are the adult. I agree -take this as a sign that you need to get out there a bit more. In 5 or 6 years if you want to reconnect at least then you'll both be adults and likely not working together.

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    Do you not do well with men your own age? Are you now interested in a young guy because he seems more easy to control, manipulate, deal with?
    Do men your own age intimidate you or you strike out with them?

    Sorry if that sounds offensive but it's the first thing that came to mind when a woman your age sets her sights on a guy this young.

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    Itís okay to have a crush at work but keep it professional. Iím not sure what sort of friendship you expect, Iím the same age as you and donít look for 18 year old friends. Maybe you are just lonely, why not meet your peers outside of work.

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    Decide what kind of reputation you want to have at work, then behave accordingly.

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    he's a boy not a man

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    This. Keep saying this to yourself.
    Originally Posted by Big b
    he's a boy not a man

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