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    Platinum Member bluecastle's Avatar
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    I’m a landlord, and have been in this situation: putting a lease in the name of someone when one person straight up ghosted. It can be done. The bills in his name? Call the companies and let them know you’re starting a new lease, etc. Doable. Business is business and that’s all this part is.

    I can’t get into his head, but if I had to venture a guess I would say he’s just frozen in an emotional purgatory—one that really doesn’t deserve much attention. He probably hopes, on a subconscious level, that it will “all work out” if he just does...nothing. I’ve been in a version of that, when I was 25. It was work-related, not love-related, but I basically ghosted on reality for 4 months. Not a fine moment.

    Point being, this can all end when you decide to end it. I think the time is now—that the time was maybe a good while ago, judging from things you’re saying about him.

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    Is he living with a new woman? What legal arrangements have you made? At any time he can evict you, so you had better make arrangements to get out. Leave whatever bills and all his stuff there. Stop paying all the bills, pack up and get out. If he's stupid enough to abandon his own property, that's on him. He will legally have to pay rent whether he is there or with his new gf until he makes other arrangements. Keep the ring, he dumped you.
    Originally Posted by Skyker
    the bills and our house in his name.

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