drivenfuture Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Hung out with a girl twice, we had a great time, she flaked three straight times, the third time not even a notice...I didnt respond. She apologized profusely and wanted to make it up to me over lunch. I told her i was busy during the day all week but we could do something at night and gave her two nights, Monday and wednesday, she said possibly Monday but had to check her schedule, in asked if Tuesday worked better, she said she worked 11 to 3 but could do after..I said 630, and she said she had to have dinner with her friend so wanted to do earlier, which I didnt want to cuz in work during the day and dont want to rush in and out...I feel like if shes serious about making it up she would have made it a priority on her schedule...should I just tell her I dont think this is gonna work between us? Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Stop responding. You're wasting your time. Do you have no self worth at all? Block her. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 We answered this a couple of days ago. Why did you create the same thread? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=561836 We advised you to move on. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Is this the same girl that you have created 7 threads over in less than two months? I believe she also has a bf? Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Stop responding. You're wasting your time. Do you have no self worth at all? Block her. It is so ridiculous! You are obsessed with this girl and she has a bf. It is sad! Seek some therapy! Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Yes, tell her that you don't think this is going to work between you two. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Yes, tell her that you don't think this is going to work between you two. I think she considers him a friend. He is living in a fantasy. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Is this the same girl that you have created 7 threads over in less than two months? I believe she also has a bf? Oh my, just realized what the backstory is here. OP, you need to stop with this. This woman isn't trying to date you. You need to find someone else to pursue. Link to comment
drivenfuture Posted September 23, 2019 Author Share Posted September 23, 2019 Uhh no, different girl. This one is not my coworker nor does she have a boyfriend. Link to comment
Camber 2019 Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Uhh no, different girl. This one is not my coworker nor does she have a boyfriend. You seem to chase after women who have no interest in you... Just sayin' Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Unfortunately you both seem to have quite rigid schedules. When interest on both sides is this low, everyone is too busy. You don't have to tell her anything after 2 hangouts. Stop asking her out. I told her i was busy during the day all week but we could do something at night and gave her two nights, Monday and wednesday, she said possibly Monday but had to check her schedule, in asked if Tuesday worked better, she said she worked 11 to 3 but could do after.. I said 630, and she said she had to have dinner with her friend so wanted to do earlier, which I didnt want to cuz in work during the day and dont want to rush in and out... I feel like if shes serious about making it up she would have made it a priority on her schedule. Link to comment
jimthzz Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 She may be unable to just tell you to go away directly. But go away you must. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 You seem to pursue women who are unavailable , or do not have an interest in you. Link to comment
Camber 2019 Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Are you perhaps consistently pursuing women who are out of you league? Don't rely on an attractive woman for your self worth, you need to obtain that on your own, first. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Are you perhaps consistently pursuing women who are out of you league? Don't rely on an attractive woman for your self worth, you need to obtain that on your own, first. Yeah. It seems that he does, as he is emotionally unavailable; otherwise, he would choose women who are not involved and show interest in him. In two months, he has written about three different women. Link to comment
maew Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 should I just tell her I dont think this is gonna work between us? Yes. TBH I wouldn't have given her another chance after second flake. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted September 23, 2019 Share Posted September 23, 2019 Hung out with a girl twice, we had a great time, she flaked three straight times, the third time not even a notice...I didnt respond. She apologized profusely and wanted to make it up to me over lunch. I told her i was busy during the day all week but we could do something at night and gave her two nights, Monday and wednesday, she said possibly Monday but had to check her schedule, in asked if Tuesday worked better, she said she worked 11 to 3 but could do after..I said 630, and she said she had to have dinner with her friend so wanted to do earlier, which I didnt want to cuz in work during the day and dont want to rush in and out...I feel like if shes serious about making it up she would have made it a priority on her schedule...should I just tell her I dont think this is gonna work between us? Seriously? this is even a question? She flaked out 3 times and you give her a 4th opportunity and even though she wants to make it up to you, she won't commit to date and the one date in question, you get pushed back after she prioritizes her dinner date with her friend? No and no Link to comment
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