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    The relationship sounds terrible overall, OP. Dreary, monotonous, negative, neglectful, spiteful. I don't think it's just her comments that are a concern. It's the overall picture and how the whole relationship makes you feel. And what it's turning you into. If you are starting to feel dreary, monotonous, negative, neglected and spiteful, you're just not a pleasant person to be around with at all. She may think you're a bit over-emotional and fed up with your mood swings if neither of you are working out your differences in a more proactive and respectful way.

    I wouldn't let this drag on indefinitely. Either work things out together or don't keep being in these types of negative situations. It doesn't look good on you overall and over time, it's really on you (your responsibility to change your situation if you are unhappy).

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    Originally Posted by Daz113
    Thanks for your reply! I know everyone argues is natural but I really do try and sort things like an adult without saying hurtful things...I do believe you shouldn't say cutting nasty comments because once you have said them you cant take them back. Comments like ‘I dont want to be in this relationship anymore’ ‘Thats why I dont want children with you!’ and ‘My feelings have changed for you but if you make an effort we can change that..’
    These comments we not meant apparently...but I cant forget them at the monent and at a time when we should be focusing on us, she goes and gets a dog.
    Is this really normal behaviour??
    Why doesn't she feel like she also has to make an effort?

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