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Thread: Should I just leave him alone?

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    Should I just leave him alone?

    Although my fwb acted jealous by going through my cell phone. He also is too busy for me. I texted him yesterday and I didn't get no reply back. So I texted him saying you must be busy just saying hi. Well little bit after that he texted saying he was in a pool tournament. I didn't say anything until this morning. I texted him oh ok. Then I texted him how are you. His reply was ok but busy.He is the same guy who snooped through my phone and got another guys name and posted about him on Facebook. I don't understand why he is too busy so maybe I will be busy too.

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    Lose. The. Phone.

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    yea but did you see my post where I said he went through my phone and made a post on Facebook about when her conversations are short with you they are longer with someone else than he put maybe it is the guy name he found on my phone. So you mean breathe I let him breath and he felt I was texting someone else.

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    Text Ted instead.
    Originally Posted by honeybun35
    I texted him yesterday and I didn't get no reply back.
    So I texted him saying you must be busy just saying hi.
    I texted him oh ok.
    Then I texted him how are you.

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    Yeah, I'd start getting busy.

    Busy people aren't bored. Busy, non-bored people tend not to get obsessed with FWBs, particularly those who snoop through phones and post nonsense on social media. Busy, non-bored people find all that boring, not interesting.

    Your posting history, if I can be honest, is a kind of case study in what happens to adults who are very bored. If you were under 17, I'd treat it differently, but I think you're closer to 17x2.

    Thank this man in your head, and your time together, for letting you know how bored you got during a juncture in life. Then go out and get busy.

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    and why would I do that

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    This again!

    I thought you were a teen. This is all so silly!

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    Do you have any social life outside of this guy? Do you do things that enrich your life?

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    Read the book or watch the film 'hes just nit that into you'. All the answers you need!

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    hes the one that's unemployed I work all day

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