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Thread: Decipher his words - I don't understand behaviour of men

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    He got what he wanted which was to f*ck you. I believe you were used. He's got your money, and I doubt you will see him again. Those 5 days away were probably with another woman. You were taken for a ride. Dont have any contact with him again.

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    I don't think he got any money from her. He is transferring money to her apparently for the purpose of a plane ticket. (see post #1)

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    If getting cooked dinner, getting laid, and being served breakfast in bed is getting "used," sign me up.

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    Haha no, i know he went to a festival. There could've been another woman there, who knows. If I ask, he will tell me. He is not a liar. Well, everyone lies, but he wouldn't lie about that.
    I have his money. I think boys do stupid like that to keep woman hanging. Like leaving jackets at their house etc, a reason to call, or whatever. I have his money, as his line of work is not ehm legal of sorts.. For the intent of buying him a plane ticket when he needs to go.. Somewhere.. Which was not here, when we spoke earlier today. So in a couple of days, I will no longer be holding his money for him.
    I don't feel used, he didn't use me. My gut feeling is OK, I'm OK. I don't expect anything from him, though this does not take away from the fact that I now do want something from him. These are two different things.

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    It's natural enough to want more of something you've enjoyed, but this is where the brain comes in to override going for that second helping. Some things truly are better as a one time thing.
    If you can think of it like that, and then turn your attention to something else to look forward to, you can stop yourself from getting hung up on getting more of him.
    Use the energy to do something else you really have wanted to do.

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    It was a fling.

    You should get his money back to him, and figure out if you want to continue the friendship.

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    Well, that changes things. This is a catch and release. No cigar.

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    Originally Posted by j.man
    If getting cooked dinner, getting laid, and being served breakfast in bed is getting "used," sign me up.
    Good point and agree!

    I think he was into you, still is, he just does not believe or interested in the standard conventional style relationship where boy pursues girl, texts every day, once or twice a week dates and so on.

    I can relate to it as it's exactly how I feel. Conventional type relations don't work for me anymore. And would not want one no matter how deep the attraction.

    Does not mean he doesn't or didn't feel a connection with you, he sent you money for you to buy him a plane ticket, what guy who is 'using' a girl would do that?
    Last edited by justicegrl; 09-11-2019 at 04:08 PM.

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    Originally Posted by melancholy123
    He got what he wanted which was to f*ck you.
    Ts ts ts language!

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    Lol Dias.

    justice girl, you're trying to make it sound all fancy, but all it is either a fwb situation or casual sex, but it's definitely not a relationship.

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