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Thread: Odd work situation with girlfriend...

  1. #11
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    How big is your town? Are there other employers? What is the job?

    I think her action are terrible, and I understand your feelings. Has she always been like this?

  2. #12
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    I often keep some emotional distance when giving advice in order to remain objective and non-judgemental. Hell I struggled with this one; which ever way I turned it, all I could see and feel is betrayal and self-centeredness. The least she could have done is discuss it with you before applying, hear how you feel and then voice her reasons for applying for the job at the company in the first place. Especially given that you have afforded her the same courtesy in the past.

    Frankly, I'd feel betrayed too... I'm not the type that adds fuel to fire but I can't lie either.

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