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    lol. Is this for real. It is already demised. Done. Kaput.

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    Originally Posted by 199024

    What do I do? How do I bring this up to him? I donít want this to be the demise of our relationship.
    Trust me! he is not going to change this part of him just because of you. this is something that will need to be dealt with on his own and will probably be a life long struggle for him.

    once the butterfly stage comes to an end and you're together for years, he will venture back into these habits. i dated a guy once who admitted to me he let girls and guys go down on him AND he had gone down on guys too! i tried to deal with it but the relationship had to end.

    there are a lot of men who think porn is normal bedroom activity and have been corrupted to think they are porn stars themselves and should be doing kinky strange things in the bedroom. i wouldn't be surprised if he asked you to do things to him someday that you're uncomfortable with. some men just want more and keep looking for the next new thing to try, it's just not healthy at all.

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    Originally Posted by DancingFool
    I mean if you are truly honest with yourself - is what he is doing acceptable to you? If yes, then you say nothing and accept his behavior along with all the potential consequences of that. If not, you walk away while it's still only three months and easy to walk. There is no middle ground here.
    Yep. Middle ground would mean telling him how you know all of this, and you can't anticipate how he'll respond to that. Even if he were willing to deal with your surveillance without bucking you, it won't mean that he'll ever trust YOU again. Then, what kind of outcome could you expect from asking him to stop his activities? If he agrees, you won't know whether he'll resent you, or whether he'll just keep doing it and while hiding it better from you.

    There is no 'good' outcome to raising this with him. I'd decide whether you want to accept this behavior from him, or not, and if not, I'd skip exposing my snooping and move on.

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    I don't have Twitter so I didn't even know you could put porn on there! Well the problem I see here is that he is showing himself sexually to millions of other people and discussing sexual things and this is without your agreement or talking to you about it at all. E.g. my partner and I put some videos of us on Pornhub, but we did the videos together and we both agreed to put them up. However we are not sending porn to any people individually or talking to any other people. I mean if you are not OK with it then he should hide his account or at least delete all the masturbation photos and videos.

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