When your partner's family is toxic...

[Wiseman2]

Ironically sending such a letter demonstrates no boundaries whatsoever on her part. Butting out does. She does not call the shots for him and his family. She's just the live-in gf. If she wants to escalate this to WWIII, she'll continue to invade, micromanage, try to call the shots and do witchy crap like this:

I would send them a nice letter (in the mail) outlining what you see as the problem and setting some serious boundaries about what you will and will not tolerate.

[catfeeder]

I would send them a nice letter (in the mail) outlining what you see as the problem and setting some serious boundaries about what you will and will not tolerate.

And then stick to it.

Never would I do this. Ever.