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Thread: Narcissist or BPD?

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    What attracts you to this sick relationship?

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    Drug addicts never make any sense, well, because they are addicts. When your brain is fried, you have no reasonable control or any sense of yourself. Yes addiction can stem from mental illness but the behavior can just the addiction itself that causes those symptoms. Either way there is nothing you could have ever done for her. Her problem is up to her family now so don't feel guilty. I suggest you pack up all her stuff and drop it off where she is living at or at her moms/parent's place. If that isn't possible, throw it out. The reality is, you are done, and she is gone. You are no longer responsible for her or her stuff. Secondly, you really need to let go. That means absolutely no contact of any kind, even if she tries. You have done pretty good so far realizing your self worth, and dumped her. I hope you are doing better.

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    Don't focus on diagnoses but instead of resolving whatever inside you that is keeping you from totally blocking this person from your life. Analysing them or wonder why they do this or that is just another way for you to keep you wrapped up in that mess, because you're still addicted to those ups and downs and toxicity and want to find ways of still be involved in it.

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    No relationship can reap havoc on our lives without our consent. Instead of analyzing the woman, walk away from her.

    If that's not simple enough for you, then she's not the only one with a problem.

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    Thanks for the feedback

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