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    Our future together.

    I'm in a long distance relationship, we plan to move together sometime in the future, they plan to move to my country (overseas) and the problem is that they have a hamster and a cat. They do not want to leave them behind of course and hamsters have no way of traveling via planes and cats are kept in a small kennel to themselves, in a 15 hour flight that wouldn't be ideal. I'm now scared that we'll never be able to see eachother and I'm feeling incredibly depressed about it.

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    Platinum Member bluecastle's Avatar
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    Have you ever met this person?

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    I think the person you are dating would be capable of arranging long distance flights for her/his pets if need be. Try not to go there. It's not your issue and you may be micromanaging. If the person wants to be with you, it'll happen.

    Are there other factors or issues that are causing you to feel down or sad?

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    I think this is the end

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    Lets take a look at this.....is it not better to just think about the here and now? I'm assuming you haven't met or spent real time together. You should be focusing on that first before getting all up tight about living together.

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    Originally Posted by ImmenseTensi
    the problem is that they have a hamster and a cat.

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    Originally Posted by ImmenseTensi
    the problem is that they have a hamster and a cat. They do not want to leave them behind of course and hamsters have no way of traveling via planes and cats are kept in a small kennel to themselves, in a 15 hour flight that wouldn't be ideal.
    So if a Hamster and a Cat create such a huge problem, how do you expect things to work out when you run into real problems with your relationship?

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    Originally Posted by bluecastle
    Have you ever met this person?
    I'm guessing no.

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    Originally Posted by SarahLancaster
    I'm guessing no.
    It's got to be the Hamster "Cat-fishing" on social Media!

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    Tell your parents you are communicating supposedly with someone 15 hrs away.
    Originally Posted by ImmenseTensi
    I'm in a long distance relationship, we plan to move together sometime in the future, they plan to move to my country (overseas) and the problem is that they have a hamster and a cat. They do not want to leave them behind of course and hamsters have no way of traveling via planes and cats are kept in a small kennel to themselves, in a 15 hour flight that wouldn't be ideal. I'm now scared that we'll never be able to see eachother and I'm feeling incredibly depressed about it.

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