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Thread: I (26m) texted to my ex

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    I (26m) texted to my ex

    So I texted my ex today fIrst timeafter 2 years, but I have a gf. We texted about casual stuff, I do miss her someties but I do not want her back. I dont think this is a big issue, because I just wanted to talk to her after a long time, but I am scared how my gf would react, because she is really jealous. On the other side, she also sometimes talks to her exes, wishes them happy b-day etc. What do you guys think, is it a big deal ?

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    I think everything is fine but sometimes you need to check)

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    How long have you been dating the current gf? How long did you date the exgf? If you are both checking in with exes why is that a problem? Avoid TMI.
    Originally Posted by skyman
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    How to deal with the fact I have never had gf in the age of25? I have low self confidence and nevere asked a girl out, but no girl also ever did this to me.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    How long have you been dating the current gf? How long did you date the exgf? If you are both checking in with exes why is that a problem? Avoid TMI.
    Since march 2019.. Relationship with my ex was toxic, we kept breaking up and getting together for almost 3 years... I would not even say we had a relationship, just sort of... dated?

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    Why stay in touch? Try to focus where you are not where you've been.
    Originally Posted by skyman
    Relationship with my ex was toxic, we kept breaking up and getting together for almost 3 years.

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    I don't see what the point of keeping in touch with this specific ex is, if it was so toxic.

    What was you real motivation here?

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    Is this the toxic gf or the new gf?: [Register to see the link]
    Originally Posted by skyman
    Since march 2019.. Relationship with my ex was toxic

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    So you think hiding things from your girlfriend is a good way to conduct a relationship?

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    Just one question: Is there a productive purpose why you are texting her? It seems that there are more cons than pros in what u r doing.


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