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Thread: Is abuse forgivable?

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    It does feel like falling off a cliff.

    He keeps telling me he didnít cheat on me and him calling escorts met nothing to him. That he was on a binge of coke and alcohol and never realized how bad drinking effected our relationship. I wish I could snap my fingers and realize I deserve better.

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    Have you read up on what abuse is and what it looks like? There are many many resources available to you to educate yourself on this as well as enlist the help of therapy. You need to help yourself.
    Originally Posted by Shadow2019
    I keep thinking what he did isnít abuse. We had so many good times too.

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    Gotta love how his excuse for abusing you is "I was hopped up on illegal drugs! It's not my fault!!"

    Who forced the cocaine up his nose? Who pinned him down and poured the booze down his throat?

    He's deliberately trying to confuse you. Looks like it's working.

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    Been there, done that. Get out, he is not going to change. Yes, forgive him and move on.

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