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Thread: LDR Australia to England losing the Spark

  1. #11
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    She's probably freaking out because the holiday fantasy fun romance is suddenly getting real. She probably realizes the folly of uprooting your life for someone you've spent 28 days with.

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    Hey Guys

    Appreciate the advice.

    I understand that it is moving incredibly fast. But there are not other options if we want to be together.
    Visiting her regularly wouldn't really be an option. It is around $1500 for a return ticket, and takes 30 hours each way. Plus, starting a new job in Melbourne, would mean I wouldn't be able t o get time off to visit, and her role currently wouldn't give her a week or regularly to visit.

    I recently left my job in Melbourne (which is why I traveled to the UK), and also left my apartment (the owners sold it), so I was effectively moving out and changing jobs anyway, so it isn't that big a deal to make those changes in the UK, instead of Australia.

    Also if we do break up, I would stay in the UK with my brother.

    Also, the not knowing her well enough, we have talked a lot, and have spoken a lot over the past 8 months. I think I know her relatively well.

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    Speaking is not knowing.

    I don't recall, you are not planning to live with her, are you?

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Speaking is not knowing.

    I don't recall, you are not planning to live with her, are you?
    Not right away.

    I will be living with my brother, until I find a job and get set up etc.
    Planning to move in together after Christmas, once we find a place and are more settled.

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