Preempted strike. Nothing more than beating you to the punch. He sensed the end was eminent, so he pulled the rug out from you first, said every head f*ck thing possible to get you to doubt yourself . . and it worked.

Now that he's got you emotionally vulnerable and second guessing yourself, he wants to take you to dinner?
He just systematically broke you down and now wants you back.
Uhhhmmm, no