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Thread: Odd encounter at the gym

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    Super Moderator HeartGoesOn's Avatar
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    Wow, an FBI agent hitting on an 18 y/o at a Gym. Please don't fall for this, he could be another Ted Bundy...google it.

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    I agree with everyone else, this is creepy, I壇 ignore his messages. Do you have a friend who likes working out? You could go to the gym together and perhaps he will stop approaching you.

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    I agree that its very creepy.

    I would try to not go to the gym at your usual time if you feel uncomfortable and make sure he knows you don't want contact.
    I would talk to a personal trainer at the gym if you would like assistance.

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    FBI...... Funny, bossy and intrusive? If that's who he works for, he must be the boss.

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    Haha! Yeah, he's gay - straight men don't tan together, lol.

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    This is interesting to read, because if you were an 18 year old girl, and a 40 year old man asked you to go and tan with him... what would you think he was after???

    I agree with all the others who say he's hitting on you. If you don't think you'd be happy with a man like that, then just decline any future offers!

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    /Good advice, just be polite, just say thanks but not thanks. Say something like 'oh I have plans with my girlfriend today!' also, the advice just saying, no... or next time you're at the gym, just saying youre workouts too intense! I need something easier :) etc... you got this.

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