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    She sounds like a user.

    How old is she? Does she have a job? Why doesn't she have a place of her own?

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    She's not your partner. You're her cuddle buddy. Why do you have platonic sleep overs?
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    move on from her and just find a better partner in life.

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    She sounds like a user.

    How old is she? Does she have a job? Why doesn't she have a place of her own?
    She most definitely is a user, Holly. OP said "she sleeps in my house because she's not cool with her family, if she aint sleeping in my place she's sleeping at her female best friend's place. funny thing is she lives 3 blocks from me."

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    It makes no sense to allow anyone to sleep in your bed who doesn't want the same thing. She doesn't just end up in your bed, you either invite her or you allow her, so I'd rethink that.

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    Originally Posted by catfeeder
    It makes no sense to allow anyone to sleep in your bed who doesn't want the same thing. She doesn't just end up in your bed, you either invite her or you allow her, so I'd rethink that.
    Yes, this: "She doesn't just end up in your bed, you either invite her or you allow her, so I'd rethink that."

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    You should respect her boundaries. If she says she sees you as an older brother and not a lover, respect that. What does it matter if she's promiscuous?

    You should also respect your own boundaries. Don't share your bed with her anymore.

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