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    After a breakup it's a good idea to change all passwords. You need to do the same on any shared accounts.
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    He didn't block me on whatsapp.however he changed the password for the CCTV and Spotify playlist Hiden.

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    He's done with you. It's over. Move on. No need to reply to anything.

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    He told you how he felt about all this. Write your feeling out and take them to a good therapist to sort everything out. But stop contacting him before you get charged with stalking/harassing.
    Originally Posted by saratyyu
    don't expect me to replay or do anything anymore.

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    Originally Posted by saratyyu
    Should I not let him know how I feel and say goodbye at least? I meant we been together nearly 4 years. I feel like I should tell him that I don't want to brake up but I respect his decision and I wish him the best etc. I'm so confused.
    No, don't let him know how you feel and no, don't say goodbye to him at least. Don't bother. It doesn't matter if you don't want to break up. He WANTS to break up with YOU. You can wish him the best in your mind and leave him alone. It's over.

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    I actually contacted him and I said I don't want to brake up or give up on him and he replied saying:
    "Look what you did( he booked a Spa trip for us and we didn't go because of the fight)I tired of how you think you can talk to me. I will never allow it.And if you not happy then you know what you can do."
    What is that mean ? He still want to work out on the relationship ?

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    Originally Posted by saratyyu
    I actually contacted him and I said I don't want to brake up or give up on him and he replied saying:
    "Look what you did( he booked a Spa trip for us and we didn't go because of the fight)I tired of how you think you can talk to me. I will never allow it.And if you not happy then you know what you can do."
    What is that mean ? He still want to work out on the relationship ?
    How did you translate that into he wants to work on the relationship?

    No, he is done. Please stop messaging him. It's not going to help.

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    But he said basically he will never allow me to talk to him like that and if I'm not happy to leave him.

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    Originally Posted by saratyyu
    But he said basically he will never allow me to talk to him like that and if I'm not happy to leave him.
    None of that is "I want to work on the relationship". I get that's what YOU want, but he's not you.

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    I think he still want to discuss things and rethink the situation.

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    Originally Posted by saratyyu
    I think he still want to discuss things and rethink the situation.
    I think this is a big part of the problem. You don't LISTEN to him. You only hear what you want to hear, not what he's actually saying.

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