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Thread: Man that doesn't watch porn

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    Originally Posted by catfeeder
    Be sure to add your aversion to men who watch porn in your dating profile(s) so that you want waste your time meeting anyone who's into porn.

    Dating is about screening people out in order to move onto finding a GOOD match rather than trying to change anyone who responds. So make your profile clear enough and be clear enough when you first meet people about your dealbreakers. Then you won't get into the wrong relationships in the first place with people who ARE dealbreakers.
    Absolutely... while many people do watch porn as a "means to an end" (myself included), it doesn't mean that you need to set aside your own values around it nor does it mean you need to accept it in your partner, if it's a deal breaker for you, and makes you uncomfortable.

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    Originally Posted by Gary Snyder
    You are not alone, a lot of women don't like their men watching porn, which is looking at other women. It can feel like cheating.

    Many of the guys think that's since it's legal, that means it's okay. But many women don't see it that way.

    All you can do is find a man who does not watch other women or one who will give it up for you. You only need to find one good man.

    I only consider it cheating if the other person has the ability to respond to the looker, observer, gawker etc, but I do think it's pretty juvenile for a grown man to waste his time obsessing over women he will never have or even meet. Especially when he has as all of my men have said " a real woman to do what they're doing in porn, without all the fakery!!"

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    I enjoy porn and don't mind if a partner does. In fact, I feel a little uncomfortable if they don't like porn.

    Be sure to put it in your profile that you don't want a guy who likes porn.

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    Originally Posted by LuvsLuv
    I only consider it cheating if the other person has the ability to respond to the looker, observer, gawker etc, but I do think it's pretty juvenile for a grown man to waste his time obsessing over women he will never have or even meet. Especially when he has as all of my men have said " a real woman to do what they're doing in porn, without all the fakery!!"
    And thatís fine, there are plenty of people men and women who think people adamantly against porn because of insecurity are juvenile, myself included. I think a grown woman with a healthy sense of self should recognize that sometimes men and women want that release and porn helps.

    It is what it is. What I think isnít fact, itís opinion.

    No need to sell us, believe me, weíre all adults here and we all have fully formed opinions about pornography, either we like it or we donít, different strokes for different folks, what youíre doing, itís deeper, and right now youíre venting to feel more secure. You're treating the symptom, so youíre going in circles.

    Are you going to tell us whatís led to this question or....

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    And thatís fine, there are plenty of people men and women who think people adamantly against porn because of insecurity are juvenile, myself included. I think a grown woman with a healthy sense of self should recognize that sometimes men and women want that release and porn helps.
    I agree with you on this, and am just trying to find out why the original poster is so turned off or insecure about her man and porn.

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