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Thread: Did I Ruin Everything By Blowing Up His Phone After We Had Sex?

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    Originally Posted by HeartGoesOn
    He'll tell you that black is white, and will further prove it in order to get you between the sheets. Words are meaningless without being followed up with actions.

    Why not take the high road, and walk away with your self-respect intact?
    I thought he loved me. He said he did. He said he loves me after chewing me out for blowing up his phone.

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    Originally Posted by ThatGirlTayl
    I thought he loved me. He said he did. He said he loves me after chewing me out for blowing up his phone.
    Why do you think you blew up his phone?

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Why do you think you blew up his phone?
    Because I was scared he was going to disappear. And he kind of did in a way. I was scared he was using me. So I was looking up things that made me even more scared that he was using me.

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    Originally Posted by ThatGirlTayl
    Because I was scared he was going to disappear. And he kind of did in a way. I was scared he was using me. So I was looking up things that made me even more scared that he was using me.
    Looking up things?

    So it was kind of a self fulfilling prophesy?

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Looking up things?

    So it was kind of a self fulfilling prophesy?
    Yeah. I guess.

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Looking up things?

    So it was kind of a self fulfilling prophesy?
    Do you think he'll ever forgive me? He said he loves me.

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    Originally Posted by ThatGirlTayl
    Do you think he'll ever forgive me? He said he loves me.
    No one knows, but it's this very anxiety ridden thinking that got you into trouble in the first place.

    Why don't you go for a walk or call a friend and try to stop ruminating about this. It isn't going to change anything.

    You've been here asking crystal ball type questions for 3 hours now. Please take a break.

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    Originally Posted by ThatGirlTayl
    Do you think he'll ever forgive me? He said he loves me.
    He will be back, when he needs something else.

    Theres nothing to forgive, this is who you are, it wont change, you dont trust him, I have no doubt this is what he does and this is what you do.

    If you dont plan to heal yourself...my best advice is try to wait it out.

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    He will be back, when he needs something else.

    Theres nothing to forgive, this is who you are, it wont change, you dont trust him, I have no doubt this is what he does and this is what you do.

    If you dont plan to heal yourself...my best advice is try to wait it out.
    You mean we're just repeating the same pattern in our relationship every time? And it's never going to change? Because our relationship dynamic is just going to be the same every time?

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    Your standards are nonexistent. He did not use you. =_=

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