Lanna, it was too late to edit my last post but wanted to add that I hope he is able to be as accepting of you and your feelings and more carefree attitude as you are of him and his feelings and attitude

And learn to lighten up a bit, especially on vacation which is the time to relax and not worry about the cost of ice cream! Lol

Remember, acceptance goes both ways.

Anyway, wish you both the best, hope it works out. :)