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Thread: Is my ex just using me?

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    Is my ex just using me?

    After being apart for 5 months we got back in contact with each other. He initiated contact via text and then have been texting frequently. He would send me really sweet messages, love songs, apologies, playlists of love songs, etc.
    We talked on the phone last night which again he initiated.

    During our hour and a half phone call we talked about how we are still in love with each other and how he still wants to be with me, and working on our relationship. We talked about things we miss about each other, he kept telling me he loves me and I'm the only good person in his life, and we discussed what we would expect from each other in a new relationship. He asked me to go to his court hearing on Monday even because he wants me there. And then this morning he tells me again that he loves me.


    Also, this morning, my ex heart reacted another girl's picture and commented "nice 👌" on it after we talked on the phone for an hour and a half last night.


    Should I confront him? Or what? I feel absolutely crushed because it sounded like over the phone he had come to his senses and he said he has realized that he only loves me and we had a delightful conversation where we laughed and talked. I don't understand his behavior.
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    I have no idea what you are talking about? Give us some context then we can answer your question.

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    Sorry, I edited it to include the missing context.

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    What's the court hearing about?

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    What were the problems? Why did you break up? How long were you together?

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    We were together for a year and a half. Problems were communication, honesty, fear of vulnerability, no one cheated on anyone of anything like that.

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    It's a change in plea hearing for robbery.

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    Originally Posted by ThatGirlTayl
    It's a change in plea hearing for robbery.
    Why isn't someone who has a criminal record a deal breaker? What do your friends and family think of him? How many times has he been arrested?

    The communication problems still exist.

    Find someone who does not have a record and has more to offer. This guy is a loser. You can do much better, OP.

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    This is his first offense. And it happened while we were dating. I don't know. I guess I thought our relationship was fixable and he maybe felt the same way, but I guess not.

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    He committed a felony. What are you thinking?! You are not looking at the big picture. This guy is a loser! Why would you want to screw your future up with a guy in prison?

    Does he have a job?

    Aim higher than felons!

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