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    She's a married woman living with her husband (he's not her ex and they are not separated) and wants a cyber affair. Delete and block her. Get on dating apps and start messaging and meeting available local single women. Get your own place if you want a decent chance at attracting women.
    Originally Posted by MichaelS1977
    she is recently separated and still sharing a house with her ex.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    She's a married woman living with her husband (he's not her ex and they are not separated) and wants a cyber affair. Delete and block her. Get on dating apps and start messaging and meeting available local single women. Get your own place if you want a decent chance at attracting women.
    Ditto what Wiseman says!

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    She's a married woman living with her husband (he's not her ex and they are not separated) and wants a cyber affair. Delete and block her. Get on dating apps and start messaging and meeting available local single women. Get your own place if you want a decent chance at attracting women.
    Ahhh... missed that or it didn't register at the time I posted.

    Completely agree with you Wiseman.

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    You were a rebound....now she's bouncing back to her husband.

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    They weren't married, not that it's an important detail.

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    Originally Posted by MichaelS1977
    They weren't married, not that it's an important detail.
    Maybe not, but what is important is she's living with someone whom she calls her "ex." In spite of what she's telling you, that alone is a major red flag.

    At any rate it appears she's bowing out, which you should be doing, as well.

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    How do you guys infer she is married? While that might be a possibility, this happens all the time with singles.

    A year of dating is way more time than needed if she were ever going to fall in love with you. Her saying there is no physical attraction means you are done.

    You have run into a professional dater. Some women will date a man when they approve of him, but feel nothing - because they don't have another man on the horizon, they don't have any other options that they can see. It's best to watch for signs of this in the first few weeks and then tell them, "Let's be friends". The slow dating was your clue. Of course the women are too beautiful and most men would never be brash enough to say such a thing. So don't feel bad! This whole love thing is mostly a woman's game (good for them I say).
    Last edited by Gary Snyder; 08-06-2019 at 12:55 PM.

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    Originally Posted by MichaelS1977
    Should I just give up?
    Yes. ................

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