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Thread: it's hard to stop think about her.

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    it's hard to stop think about her.

    hi my name is Vincent and i am new here on this site. I have been struggle or something with this problem that i have. Sorry for my english i'm not so good at speeling but i hope that you people will understand this situation. Anyway so i have been talking to this girl through Facebook and stuff and this is the reason i'm here on this forum. I have been readed so much about romance scam or what's it is called. Because i want to know of this girl is tricking me into falling in love with her for asking for money later maybe. I'm lucky that i haven't been sending any money to her because i'm not that kinda easy person to fall for scam. But the thing is that i have been talking to this girl for like a while now and we had voice calls and she is pretty nice. The thing right now is that we have been like fighting or not fighting but her personality is kinda weird. Because in the beginning she was like ohh i love the way u talk and chat with me and then now she is like i don't know why u think i am cheating but i'm not. It's so hard to explain this situation. She is a Phillipino girl. Like we haven't been talking for days now and i just miss talking with her. I don't know how to explain but i miss our talk and she even wanted to come visit me here in Thailand. She told me that she will risk her life to meet me here in thailand and that made me so happy that i thought we would be a perfect couple. Right now we haven't been talking for like 4-5 days and i just want to know if she is cheating on me right now. I know that internet relationship is just a waste but like give me some advice or something because i have been feeling really bad physically or not like that but you know when you miss someone or are in love that's how it feels right now.

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    Cheating is not possible if you are not in a relationship. And an internet girlfriend is not a real-life relationship. You say you are in love with her, but can you really be in love without knowing how she smells, how she feels to touch? You are infatuated. And a change in pattern is not easy.

    If you miss talking with her, then you should reach out.

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    Why are you communicating with someone who is living in another country and you will never meet? What a waste of time. You do not even know this girl. This is a fantasy.

    Find a local girl, who you can actually interact with in person.

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    sure its a waste of time but like she feels special when talking. why so many mad responses here?

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    sure but i dont want to be so much on her nerve like...

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    It detracts yo from finding someone you can have a real relationship with. Have you had a real relationship?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    It detracts yo from finding someone you can have a real relationship with. Have you had a real relationship?
    yeah but it was a long time ago.

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    Originally Posted by justamember
    yeah but it was a long time ago.
    Isn't it time to change things? Not a fantasy relationship with someone you will never meet.

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Isn't it time to change things? Not a fantasy relationship with someone you will never meet.
    she said she will come to my country and meet me soon but i'm not sure about if she wants it anylonger. I'm still friend with her on FB does that mean something? like i don't want to break the friendship i am having with her it's just that she have been quiet some days. At the beginning she was like ohh i love you and stuff and now she changed. I think its weird like that.

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    Meet someone local.

    You cannot continue a friendship if there are feelings.

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