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Kikala

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Kind people I need your advice. I have been seeing a guy for a year. We were neither firends nor couple. Recently I objected against stagnant situation that we had. He asked to take some time to think. The "some time' lasted for 5 days. Since then we have daily contact by phone for a month already, but no sign that he wants to see me. I am lost, confused, worried and nervous. I have a feeling that will never see him. I do not want to push and ask for a meeting, but I also miss him a lot. What to do? Why he does not want to see me?:eek::eek::eek::eek:

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You were not friends, but not a couple? What were you?

 

Same question here.

 

Were you sexually active with him, OP? Friend with benefits?

 

If he needed time to think and hasn't asked to see you for a month, then I'm afraid to tell you he doesn't want to take things further.

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From April: "He does not want serious relationship

I have been dating him for almost 8 months. He is newly divorced. I am really into him think that he is my soulmate and the best person I have ever met, but at the same time he makes me feel horrible and most of the time I am sad because of him. He cannot make his mind, his mood changes all the time. He runs and than comes back again. We do not have sex, which irritates him. I do not trust him and I think that by having sex I will worsen my situation and get emotionally more attached to him. I tried several times to stop to see him but it does not work. Recently he directly told me that he does not want a serious relationship. I feel like I am trapped."

 

What do you get from this? Block and delete him. Then take some control of your life, and get some therapy?

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Walk away, he's not interested and seems to make you miserable.

I have been dating him for almost 8 months. He is newly divorced. I am really into him think that he is my soulmate and the best person I have ever met, but at the same time he makes me feel horrible and most of the time I am sad because of him.

He cannot make his mind, his mood changes all the time. He runs and than comes back again. We do not have sex, which irritates him. I do not trust him and I think that by having sex I will worsen my situation and get emotionally more attached to him. I tried several times to stop to see him but it does not work. Recently he directly told me that he does not want a serious relationship. I feel like I am trapped.

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