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Thread: Advice needed. Not sure where to post this? Has anyone had a similar situation?

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    Why did you agree to pay him? Now, you have to pay him, as you put it in writing on WhatsApp.

    If he continues after payment, seek out a restraining order. It is not legal to harass people.

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    Originally Posted by LHGirl
    We can agree to disagree here. I don't care if he's a narc/psycho, makes a million dollars, or whatever.

    For me, it's about taking the high road, paying a portion of a trip that I enjoyed, and then blocking and deleting him forever.

    That's just me....I stand by my choice.
    I totally agree. She agreed to 'sort it out later' which means there was some promise of payment.

    Send him some money and then block his emails.

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    I completely feel the same, which is why I feel conflicted. Financially itís impossible for me to pay upfront right now a long with maintain a house in London and the rest. He knows this.

    I guess Iím a similar sort of person and I will have to offer something. Even if I Ďlegallyí owe it or not, Iím feeling too scared not to

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    Send him ten dollars (or pounds) a month.

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    Originally Posted by Chloej123
    I completely feel the same, which is why I feel conflicted. Financially itís impossible for me to pay upfront right now a long with maintain a house in London and the rest. He knows this.

    I guess Iím a similar sort of person and I will have to offer something. Even if I Ďlegallyí owe it or not, Iím feeling too scared not to
    It doesn't matter what he knows. You said you would give him money.

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    I also agree with this too. As legally I know I donít, but I genuinely am scared of who he knows. I know he wouldnít do anything himself due to his career, but he knows some unsavoury characters from his past who would easily do something to me or my home.

    He also knows of course my addresses and my familyís.

    I financially canít pay him upfront. I really just want to cut all ties with him so I think I feel too scared not to pay him. He did put me through hell but I guess Iím too scared of the repercussions of not paying him

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    If you feel to scared not to you need to call the police .

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    Are you documenting/recording stuff that he has sent and said?

    Has he threatened you, or simply asking for money?

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    I mean as in the legal repercussions . I havenít got a clue about court etc
    And that is really the last thing I want.

    And yes I am scared of him to the extent of who he knows too.

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    He has been asking me in intimidating ways.

    For example I didnít reply to the email sent yesterday as I didnít see it. That was the email saying where is my money? Etc etc. And today he has sent another three which read Ď....?!í

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