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Thread: In an affair ... what to do

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    Bleh... I never give compassion to cheaters.

    Do as you will with this new woman, I didn't even read all of that. Have your drama with the new woman but at least be decent enough to end your other relationship.

    You're going through an entire internal conflict about a woman you shouldn't even be with, you've said nothing about your relationship with your wife and kids. It was all: me, me, I, I feel..., me...etc.

    You clearly insist on putting your own selfish needs first. At least end it with your wife and kids, that way your wife can find someone who actually loves and respects her and your kids can have a chance of hopefully getting some kind of step parent role model.

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    There's no excuse for cheating and although I didnt read all the responses, no one should give you advice to help you cheat.

    Your first advice is this: End it with your wife.

    Then after you do that you can come back and ask for advice about what to do next.

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    Don’t feel sorry for you at all. Here is some advice “STOP CHEATING!”.

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    Correct, why would no sex at all with my wife ever can be an issue? It is not like we need it to survive as an human being. Thanks for all the advice.

    I just got started the divorce, and also ended my affair.

    I will probably be much happier in longterm not being selfish.

    Good luck to you all

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    Originally Posted by JustMe2020
    Correct, why would no sex at all with my wife ever can be an issue? It is not like we need it to survive as an human being. Thanks for all the advice.

    I just got started the divorce, and also ended my affair.

    I will probably be much happier in longterm not being selfish.

    Good luck to you all
    I have been following your post...

    Wondering how are you doing..

    The person I'm with is very similar to your situation which I have actually broke it off with him..

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    A lot of posters seem to come here to confess and justify cheating. It usually starts out with my wonderful partner but.... and continues to describe someone they just happened to get close to and usually finishes off with them feeling sorry for themselves because they are faced with this dilemma. Old as the hills.
    Originally Posted by choki1234
    I have been following your post... Wondering how are you doing..
    The person I'm with is very similar to your situation which I have actually broke it off with him..

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    On edit: See my guess below.

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    @the poster wondering how the OP is doing My guess in a recap:
    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    Oh cry me a river. Either continue in the status quo or stop talking to your concubine and go cold turkey withdrawl. Either or, nothing else.
    Originally Posted by JustMe2020
    Correct, why would no sex at all with my wife ever can be an issue? It is not like we need it to survive as an human being. Thanks for all the advice.

    I just got started the divorce, and also ended my affair.

    I will probably be much happier in longterm not being selfish.
    ya, like one page of replies suddenly convinced you to leave TWO women. I doubt it.

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