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Thread: Ignoring vs telling an ex not to contact you?

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    Platinum Member Wiseman2's Avatar
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    Why can't you post a pic of you and your current bf on social media?

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    Op, silence is your best friend here.

    The mere act of spending energy and time telling him to not contact indicates you still care, which you do!

    Otherwise you'd be indifferent to it. May as well own it, it's quite obvious.

    He's not stupid he knows this too.

    If you truly want no contact ever again, ignore him, he will eventually get bored and stop.

    Don't play his game!

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    . "I just want hi to try again down the road"

    So you DO want him to try again.

    Why ask for advice on getting him to stop when in your own words you say you want him to try again?

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    OP, Did you mean to say "you don't want him to try again down the road"?

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    If you were truly over him, you'd roll your eyes and delete and not give it another thought. However, you are here posting and reposting looking for someone to tell you that this is soooo romantic, true love, blah blah blah. It.is.not. The guy is a creep who is using you because you are easy to use. You are easy to use because you believe in this twisted idea of romance and don't have a clue that healthy sane people don't act like this guy. This could actually end up badly for you.

    You've already been given excellent advice on what to do if you truly don't want further contact - set your privacy settings so randoms can't message you. Done. Also, do not respond to any attempts at contact from him and get your head screwed on straight and start seeing this behavior for the ugly reality that it is rather than for some romantic nonsense. There is literally nothing good about this guy.

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    But she Wants to reconnect with him and contact him. She just needs practice and rehearsals for excuses to tell her bf how much she tried to avert this, but alas he wants her so much she simply can't prevent his contact..
    Originally Posted by Gary Snyder
    if you excite the stalker and he turns out to be a killer and you are dead.

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    Originally Posted by katrina1980
    OP, Did you mean to say "you don't want him to try again down the road"?
    yea it was a typo. I don't want him to try again and be reminded of what happened again. I really don't. and yes I'm over him but that doesn't mean contact from him is not painful and only makes me relive the pain i went though

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    Thread already exists, (Below).

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