Does cancelling plans the day of because of feeling like garbage and have an extreme migrane count as flaking? or making plans with no official set date then cancelling them out of the blue a week later to give a rain check count as flaking? or being really sick and not wanting to give them your sickness and cancelling plans considered flaking? that's the only time I cancel plans. Normally I pass when people try and make plans with me but I try not cancelling them if I agree to it unless I have a good reason to.