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    My old friend and I

    right. I have an amazing husband, we have been together for 22 years.
    Heís so lovely to me, we have a daughter aged 9 etc and on paper everything is good. Apart from the sex. Now donít get me wrong itís good sex and when we do have it itís great but he does not want it as much as me and I find this hard. I just crave the sexual attention, I am terrible. Hereís where it gets awful... I have this friend from the past and we were friends as couples, they were married and me and him just used to sext/ flirt and we kissed and did a few bits drunk but we stopped it all. Now only lately we are talking again but I am trying to stop it but Iím just under the silly spell again and I am a I know.
    He texts me for hours and he wants us to take this into a full blown FWB situation. Now heís as horny as me and thats how this started he wasnít getting much sex either. Now Iím too scared and I really do love my husband but Iím just craving this attention does anyone have any advice for me? Or anyone done anything similar?

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    Just get divorced. Period. And tell your husband whatís going on.

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    You are going to get really lambasted on this site! Are you sure you want to ask that question???

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    You don't deserve your husband.

    What's his details? I know loads of available women who would love a man like him.

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    Yep. Iím up for any responses. I will be honest.
    Thatís how I feel at the moment donít tell me thereís not one person here who hasnít felt like it .

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    Not kidding..what's his details? A man like your husband is rare and he needs a woman that appreciates that kind of loyalty.

    You won't be loyal back so at the very least, be decent and let him go so someone else can treat him right.

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    I have been loyal like I say weíve been together since we were kids. You know itís been the odd flirt here and there etc, but until this situation nothing like this.
    My hubby can be affection less at times though that is whatís wrong here and as you know things arenít always rosy, sometimes I do get fed up of being the one who always seems to initiate sex, hes just not into it like I am.

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    But you haven't been loyal.

    Google emotional cheating. Plus you've engaged in making out with another man and are sexting behind your husbands back.

    End the affair or end the marriage...those are your two choices. But to string both men along is very wrong, especially if you've got children involved.

    You could also consider getting sex toys for yourself.

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    Would this be ok if your daughter was married and her husband was doing this? Would it be ok for your husband to do this?

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    I have been for donkeys years. Iím not going to engage in a full on affair though I have been very tempted but no Iím not going to. I just i supppse donít know what to do in my marriage with regards to sex

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