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Thread: Just broke up, in need of some thoughts that arent my own

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    LDR, no job, unrealistic expectations of being a SAHM with 3 kids, he'll take care of you and endless fighting equals a recipe for disaster. He engages in gaslighting and he's chauvinistic which is a huge deal breaker.

    Twisting your words and distorting what you've said are classic gaslighting techniques which is infuriating!

    I'm glad you broke up. He sounds like a real loser.

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    You dodged a bullet.

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    Originally Posted by Asla
    I love him a lot, but I dont want to be the woman of a man who cant talk things out in a normal way, and I dont want to be stuck on the plan of having a lot of children and not working.. tho we never really clearly talked about this, he didn't want to. I guess if we could actually talk about it I would at least give it a try. But I noticed that he couldn't really think ahead in a realistic way (he really idealized everything of me so far in the relationship, an argument should never happen in his believes it seemed), let alone recognize his own mistakes in situations.

    Very good question, makes me think. Thank you :)
    You donít love him a lot.
    You even admitted yourself you donít know him?
    Your post is all and only about you getting to know him , which is about someone you donít even like never mind love?
    You are in love with a fantasy that he simply doesnít fill.

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    Originally Posted by LootieTootie
    You dodged a bullet.
    As did he!
    Incompatibility only.

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