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Thread: She gave me regret to go beyond...

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    She gave me regret to go beyond...

    It's a lot less complicated than I make it seem but I left my mark and now there is no way back to her unless I show up by surprise next wednessday. Nobody can know about it or else my next move will be exposed and I will be held back by the higher power. How do I go about this?

    I have no idea what she needs but I fell madly in love last week and became so scared that I left. It made me realize that she is the only one for me so I really want a way back. Next week I know where she is going to be. I'm not quite sure if I am allowed to get in the building. It's legal, don't worry, it's just very inappropriate to be there. But this is my only chance before it's too late.

    What do I do?

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    Get some mental help as soon as possible.

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    I don't think this is a mental problem.

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    I don't think that is a mental problem either. Communicating just like someone suggested would be a great idea, even though it may seem difficult. I don't think she would be comfortable with your other idea and also running miles may lose a bit of your selfesteem in that case if things go wrong. Good luck! Don't lose the chance :)

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    Where is she going to be that it would be inappropriate for you to show up?

    What is it you plan to do?

    We can't really give you advice when you're being so vague.

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    If you are going to stop her from marrying the man of her dreams, the only thing you are going to accomplish is looking like an idiot and get escorted out on your head. How selfish of you to think you can ruin someones wedding because you are madly in love. She will hate you forever.

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    You fell in love with her a week ago?

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    Originally Posted by smackie9
    If you are going to stop her from marrying the man of her dreams, the only thing you are going to accomplish is looking like an idiot and get escorted out on your head. How selfish of you to think you can ruin someones wedding because you are madly in love. She will hate you forever.
    Are you seriously planning to crash someone's wedding? I hope you end up either in jail or the psych ward for such a terrible idea. You need help.

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    No, a person can't fall in love within a week.

    Not possible.

    You can fall in lust and that can feel quite strong but it's also superficial. You don't know this person, you are only seeing perfection (fake) and not the actual reality. You've not seen her when she's sick or angry or moody or tired, depressed, annoyed, raging. etc, which can change the perceptions drastically.

    You also have no idea how she will relate to you, if you've got much in common, if she will even like you, what you may or may not connect on.

    There is just so much.

    You can't count it as love, unless its been long term and you know 100% that you accept each other fully, have been through loads of good times and bad, know one another very well and are both committed to each other.

    Otherwise you've got a case of lust or fake love which you're hoping for it to be real, but it's not possible if it's one sided.

    It's best you let it go before you get yourself into some serious trouble.

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    Originally Posted by Jonagoldappl

    What do I do?
    The exact opposite of you're thinking of doing. This isn't some romantic comedy where you show up last minute and everything works out. If it is her wedding you'll probably get arrested, and/or the crap beat out out you, both of which you would deserve.

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