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It's a lot less complicated than I make it seem but I left my mark and now there is no way back to her unless I show up by surprise next wednessday. Nobody can know about it or else my next move will be exposed and I will be held back by the higher power. How do I go about this?

 

I have no idea what she needs but I fell madly in love last week and became so scared that I left. It made me realize that she is the only one for me so I really want a way back. Next week I know where she is going to be. I'm not quite sure if I am allowed to get in the building. It's legal, don't worry, it's just very inappropriate to be there. But this is my only chance before it's too late.

 

What do I do?

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I don't think that is a mental problem either. Communicating just like someone suggested would be a great idea, even though it may seem difficult. I don't think she would be comfortable with your other idea and also running miles may lose a bit of your selfesteem in that case if things go wrong. Good luck! Don't lose the chance :)

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If you are going to stop her from marrying the man of her dreams, the only thing you are going to accomplish is looking like an idiot and get escorted out on your head. How selfish of you to think you can ruin someones wedding because you are madly in love. She will hate you forever.

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If you are going to stop her from marrying the man of her dreams, the only thing you are going to accomplish is looking like an idiot and get escorted out on your head. How selfish of you to think you can ruin someones wedding because you are madly in love. She will hate you forever.

 

Are you seriously planning to crash someone's wedding? I hope you end up either in jail or the psych ward for such a terrible idea. You need help.

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No, a person can't fall in love within a week.

 

Not possible.

 

You can fall in lust and that can feel quite strong but it's also superficial. You don't know this person, you are only seeing perfection (fake) and not the actual reality. You've not seen her when she's sick or angry or moody or tired, depressed, annoyed, raging. etc, which can change the perceptions drastically.

 

You also have no idea how she will relate to you, if you've got much in common, if she will even like you, what you may or may not connect on.

 

There is just so much.

 

You can't count it as love, unless its been long term and you know 100% that you accept each other fully, have been through loads of good times and bad, know one another very well and are both committed to each other.

 

Otherwise you've got a case of lust or fake love which you're hoping for it to be real, but it's not possible if it's one sided.

 

It's best you let it go before you get yourself into some serious trouble.

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It's a lot less complicated than I make it seem but I left my mark and now there is no way back to her unless I show up by surprise next wednessday. Nobody can know about it or else my next move will be exposed and I will be held back by the higher power. How do I go about this?

 

I have no idea what she needs but I fell madly in love last week and became so scared that I left. It made me realize that she is the only one for me so I really want a way back. Next week I know where she is going to be. I'm not quite sure if I am allowed to get in the building. It's legal, don't worry, it's just very inappropriate to be there. But this is my only chance before it's too late.

 

What do I do?

 

If showing up is inappropriate, don't do it. It just looks bad on you and where would that get you after everything? Let things unfold naturally and don't get involved in inappropriate situations. It's unlikely anyone would take you seriously at that point. Unfortunately I don't think that would mean much of a "chance" at anything.

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Instead of stalking, harassing, trespassing, etc or doing what you state is "very inappropriate", make an appt with your doctor for a complete checkup.

 

Both medication and supportive therapy are needed in the beginning and usually to help you throughout to monitor, assess and reassess to make sure things are progressing without unwanted side effects and optimal therapeutic effect. There is help for you out there, but it's not crashing weddings.

My doctor adviced me to take medication. Concidering my depression, does medication actually help for the long term? Or might sticking to therapy only be the best solution after all?
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