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Thread: Is he doing a slow fade or am I impatient?

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    You seem to be very passive in the dating scene but that may be because this man never felt right in the first place. The third date was cancelled and his words and actions don't measure up. You're right that it shouldn't be this hard. I think you fell for the idea of him rather than knowing him at all. You both barely know each other and that's reason enough to move on, considering the amount of trouble it's become.

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    I phone will send an I message to an I phone. If the recipient is an android user it will send as a text message.
    If the sender chooses to only send I messsges , they will be notified that the message was not sent.

    This guy is a player. Sorry!

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    Originally Posted by Aubrey2019
    Thanks. I hope to call him out on this behavior
    Don't bother.

    Your silence will say more than "calling him out" ever would.

    Simply choose to not see or speak with him anymore. Block and delete if you have to.

    He's not stupid, he'll know why, and franky judging from his actions, won't care.

    Next.

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    I wouldn't bother calling him out, either. Every ounce of attention you give him will subtract from the quality of your own life. Move ahead with the knowledge you gained about certain types of people.

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    He's not that interested, so don't "wait by the phone".
    Originally Posted by Aubrey2019
    -He canceled our 3rd date
    -He all of a sudden became so busy.
    -He stopped telling me his whereabouts, I didnít bother to ask.
    -We have no rescheduled date in sight.
    anyone that makes me post silly questions online and wait by my phone is not worth my time.

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    I date one person at a time. I dont have the capacity to multitask when it comes to dating. In addition I am very beautiful with a good body & I get a lot of attention at work. He sees other workers come in and out trying to talk to me. I had eyes for him only, now I'm just confused😥.
    Don't be. If he wanted you, there would be no confusion. Seeding doubt and confusion is a great way to keep someone in your back pocket. Let this man fly and raise your standards. He Sounds manipulative and selfish.

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    "I date one person at a time. I dont have the capacity to multitask when it comes to dating. In addition I am very beautiful with a good body & I get a lot of attention at work. He sees other workers come in and out trying to talk to me. I had eyes for him only, now I'm just confused😥."

    LOL re multitask. No need to multitask to date more than one person at a time, totally fine if you choose not to. It's basically irrelevant as far as what you look like - when it comes to dating for a relationship -yes, you might have an edge with respect to initial interest with those people who happen to be more visual but holding that interest, interacting in a way that develops a potentially serious relationship -then your gorgeous face and body are basically a neutral. Now of course many people change their minds during early dating with nothing personal meant to the person they choose to stop dating. Also if your mindset is that you deserve to be responded to because of your physical features that get ogled -the answer is yes -again, you will be responded to more often by those men who are more visual, and they might -or might not be -interested in dating you or in a potentially serious relationship. That mindset might come through in how you interact with people so take care to work on humility despite on how beautiful your face and body are.

    Oh -and I got tons of attention when I was dating. I wouldn't say I was beautiful -I was kind of girl next door/cute/pretty/slim - nothing glamorous. I attracted some really hot looking guys. Some I was interested in dating, some I wasn't. (once I was into my 20s -before that I was focused more on looks as you seem to be). Some guys chose women who were objectively better looking than me, some did not. Keep all that in mind as you consider what you have to offer when it comes to dating and a potential relationship.

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    Thank you so much everyone. your replies mean a lot to me.

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    Originally Posted by Aubrey2019
    Thank you so much everyone. your replies mean a lot to me.
    I'm glad you found the responses helpful and hope you have a good weekend!

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