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Thread: Fiancée mad about me not giving oral sex sometimes

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    How does auto correct switch fiancé to husband?
    I wondered the same thing.

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    Maybe he's sexually frustrated in general. Try other positions. If you don't sense there's care or enough love in the relationship (consideration and love for one another), this isn't the right person for you to be marrying or spending your life with. Don't be afraid to start over and imagine a different life.

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    Never deny your spouse the pleasure of oral sex. That’s the fast track to divorce.

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    You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.

    If oral is something you're not into, he should respect it. It's a fetish. It's not real sex and people live and die without doing it. If you don't want to do it, stand your ground and be blunt. However, if you're not performing on him then you shouldn't expect him to perform on you. That is fair.

    I'm sure there's some fetishes and things he doesn't like as well, things that would be off the table because HE'S uncomfortable. That being said you're allowed to cut out things that make YOU uncomfortable.

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    Also, as you're fiance him getting angry over something like this isn't a good sign. It's manipulative and if you allow this behavior to go on unchecked, next thing you know you're doing oral sex just to keep the peace.

    Appropriate reaction for him:

    - Him explaining what he's into and you guys talk it out to meet some compromise where your needs are met and his too. (Ex, they make sex toys that mimick oral sex and what one would feel while being on the receiving end. Sex is just a fantasy. That being said you guys can do some research and find an alternative. Theoretically, it would still be you performing "oral" sex on him)

    Getting angry is childish and uncalled for.

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