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    Originally Posted by Lonew0lf
    There's definitely alot more to marcie lol she was involved with a few other guys, two of which were Also our friends, that we found out about But that's besides the point lol
    News flash: "Talking" to someone does not mean that you are exclusive nor does it mean that you are anymore involved than two people who are talking. If you wanted to be with her then you should have asked her out and talked about exclusively dating and keeping good romantic relationship boundaries in place. Talking to more than one guy does not make her any of the things you've called her.

    As for you: Well you are questioning your sexuality so I agree that you should experiment with someone other than your best friend. If you are actually bi-sexual or homosexual for that matter, then you will discover that if and when you can enjoy it with someone that you have not been bonding with through a friendship with a guy who "told you everything you ever wanted to hear."

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    How old are you guys? Just as a heads up, there are a lot of women on these forums and referring to a woman as "skank hoe" just because you both liked her and you both didn't get her is not a good look. Had she actually hooked up with you or Mark? If not then what makes her a skank hoe? She didn't owe you guys anything. Just coz you wanted her doesn't mean she has to be into you too.

    Regarding Mark, well if you're not gay, you're not gay. You definitely don't have to force it. People don't like it when gay people are told "why can't you just be straight". Vice versa applies. Sexuality is what it is. However if you actually are attracted to him looks and emotionally then can you just look past that it's a guy?

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    Originally Posted by Jibralta
    Definitely all her fault, lol. But hey--at least they got closer by trashing her together! Women are good for something, by god.
    First I wish to apologise about a statement I made about him being confused about his sexuality. I am still working out how this forum works. I now realise that the front page connects to all the other forums and sub forums. I have no business commenting on posts made in any LGBTQIA forum as a hetero male. It just angers me when a male is quick to put a woman down all because hes frustrated shes not taking his advances the way he wants her to. It angers me how a majority of males troll for really insecure women, sleep with them and then discard them all to make themselves feel better.

    Now. @Jibralta. I don't see how it's her fault though? She has two males showing her attention but not making any clear specific moves. Shes obviously single and ready for something, she was waiting for one of them to push the button and why wouldn't she? If one of them had the guts to push that button, things would of sorted themselves out in a nice way so it sounds to me like she was doing the smart thing and avoiding unnecessary conflict. It's just that this guy expected her to throw herself at him and she didn't so nuts to him. *shrug.*

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    So there was four us all in total that all knew each other, (we don't know about the other guys) we all had the conversation with her about boundaries and if she was taking us serious and all that, we All made moves and had Progress with her, but this post isn't about her, f*** her

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    Originally Posted by Lonew0lf
    So there was four us all in total that all knew each other, (we don't know about the other guys) we all had the conversation with her about boundaries and if she was taking us serious and all that, we All made moves and had Progress with her, but this post isn't about her, f*** her
    Ok. I will admit, I am an outsider looking in. No denying that. I didn't fall off the turnip truck yesterday though, if you know what I mean. You can say what ever you want and shes not here to defend herself. I do sense a certain cattiness about you and well, had she warmed to your advances I doubt you would be saying any of this, you know? Anyway. I probably wouldn't of even replied had you not of called her a skank hoe. This is the last time I mention her (if you don't again.)

    As for your friend, why don't you get really really drunk one night in one of your rooms and just see where things take you? You will find out soon enough if you were meant to be with your friend.

    Oh and don't listen to anyone who says "don't get with him because it might destroy the friendship" because a) if the friendship falls apart just because of that, it wasn't much of a friendship, and b) if you have strong feelings for him (which I doubt, you are just more curious than anything) the friendship would be ruined anyway.

    When a woman plays that card, it usually means shes politely telling you shes not interested, trying not to hurt your feelings. I am not sure about you but as a male, the more direct approach works. Try it. If its meant to be, it's meant to be, if not, get over it and move on but don't explode the friendship.

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    I appreciate all of your advice, negative or not, and I will take all into consideration, but to those who are upset that I called her a skank hoe, I was just venting, I don't believe All women are skank hoes just this one in particular, so here's the full story so that you guys can understand from my perspective, were I come from "talking" is the early stages of being in a relationship, you "talk" to one person and that one person only, as I stated we all had the talk with this girl and she lied to EVERY one of us, why she decided to talk to group of friends all once idk, but eventually we all ended up hanging out together, were she spent one on one time with each of us, well towards the end of the night she ended up with me, we were making out and there was light touching but nothing was forced, well mark ended up walking in on us and she freaked out, she told him that I was forceful and tried to rape her, which was a lie, mark and I are Both victims of abuse so That's where the drama comes in, like that's not a game, that's not something to joke about it's something we take Very serious, any way that was the night we all found out about each other, this girl manipulated all of us this girl was pure Evil, so again I'm sorry for anyone who was offended but I was just Venting, I don't feel ALL women are skank hoes just this one in particular, she could have ruined my life simply because She got caught up, this post wasn't supposed to be about her but it's fine next time I'll just get Straight to the point, anyway you all have givin me Alot to think about, I appreciate ALL of you, thank you all So much.

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    Originally Posted by Lonew0lf
    I appreciate all of your advice, negative or not, and I will take all into consideration
    All good. I think the only time I have been negative towards you though was when you...

    Originally Posted by Lonew0lf
    Called her a skank hoe, I was just venting
    And I realise that now. Honestly, truth be told, I am guilty of that myself, the same as the next man.

    Originally Posted by Lonew0lf
    I don't believe All women are skank hoes just this one in particular
    I have to stop you here though. If shes young and single and attractive and flirts around a bit, that doesn't make her a "skank hoe" it means that none of the guys shes flirting with have shown her that they are capable of a real relationship. How does she know they are not just going to use her for sex then later toss her aside? Sounds to me like shes playing it smart?

    Originally Posted by Lonew0lf
    so here's the full story so that you guys can understand from my perspective, were I come from "talking" is the early stages of being in a relationship, you "talk" to one person and that one person only, as I stated we all had the talk with this girl and she lied to EVERY one of us, why she decided to talk to group of friends all once idk, but eventually we all ended up hanging out together, were she spent one on one time with each of us, well towards the end of the night she ended up with me, we were making out and there was light touching but nothing was forced, well mark ended up walking in on us and she freaked out, she told him that I was forceful and tried to rape her, which was a lie, mark and I are Both victims of abuse so That's where the drama comes in, like that's not a game, that's not something to joke about it's something we take Very serious, any way that was the night we all found out about each other, this girl manipulated all of us this girl was pure Evil, so again I'm sorry for anyone who was offended but I was just Venting, I don't feel ALL women are skank hoes just this one in particular, she could have ruined my life simply because She got caught up, this post wasn't supposed to be about her but it's fine next time I'll just get Straight to the point, anyway you all have givin me Alot to think about, I appreciate ALL of you, thank you all So much.
    Hmm. Well. That was an interesting read. I'm not saying this didn't happen, because I know it does happen but again, really, its your word against - well no ones? because shes not here to defend herself. On the flip side of the coin though, I am not sure if you know this or not but 1 in 3 women are actually forced against there will and never report it. So theirs that.

    Also please, buddy.. Try to break up your sentences. After a couple of three full stops, hit your enter button and get a new line for a new sentence so my eyes stop crossing.

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    Originally Posted by rubixcube19
    All good. I think the only time I have been negative towards you though was when you...



    And I realise that now. Honestly, truth be told, I am guilty of that myself, the same as the next man.



    I have to stop you here though. If shes young and single and attractive and flirts around a bit, that doesn't make her a "skank hoe" it means that none of the guys shes flirting with have shown her that they are capable of a real relationship. How does she know they are not just going to use her for sex then later toss her aside? Sounds to me like shes playing it smart?



    Hmm. Well. That was an interesting read. I'm not saying this didn't happen, because I know it does happen but again, really, its your word against - well no ones? because shes not here to defend herself. On the flip side of the coin though, I am not sure if you know this or not but 1 in 3 women are actually forced against there will and never report it. So theirs that.

    Also please, buddy.. Try to break up your sentences. After a couple of three full stops, hit your enter button and get a new line for a new sentence so my eyes stop crossing.
    Lol Where abouts do you come from if you don't mind if I ask? The fact that she lied that you tried to molest her, etc. is pretty wrong with, yes. I don't know where you come from but I come from a Western culture (Australia) but came here as a child from Eastern Europe. In both my countries it is not considered sexual or that you are dating if you are just talking. If she was in fact sending sexual things then yes maybe a bit different. But if she's single and all you guys are single too, nobody is cheating, then still don't get what she did wrong just in that sense. But yeah lying that you assaulted her is really bad.

    In regards to your male friend. I understand what you were saying is that you are a straight guy. Your friend Mark was originally a woman and you were attracted to him, but then transitioned. So Mark is transgender and WAS a female before. You were attracted to him as female but now you are not sure because you're not gay. Well my advice would be, don't do anything you don't feel like doing. If you're not attracted to guys then no problem. You don't have to pressure yourself just because people on this web site told you to give it a go. I mean fact of the matter is that Mark is now a guy, not a girl. As much as that may suck regarding your attraction but that's just how it is.

    Also judging by your experience with the girl, it could be wise to date outside of your friendship circle because there's just too much drama lol

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    Originally Posted by Tinydance
    Lol Where abouts do you come from if you don't mind if I ask? The fact that she lied that you tried to molest her, etc. is pretty wrong with, yes. I don't know where you come from but I come from a Western culture (Australia) but came here as a child from Eastern Europe. In both my countries it is not considered sexual or that you are dating if you are just talking. If she was in fact sending sexual things then yes maybe a bit different. But if she's single and all you guys are single too, nobody is cheating, then still don't get what she did wrong just in that sense. But yeah lying that you assaulted her is really bad.

    In regards to your male friend. I understand what you were saying is that you are a straight guy. Your friend Mark was originally a woman and you were attracted to him, but then transitioned. So Mark is transgender and WAS a female before. You were attracted to him as female but now you are not sure because you're not gay. Well my advice would be, don't do anything you don't feel like doing. If you're not attracted to guys then no problem. You don't have to pressure yourself just because people on this web site told you to give it a go. I mean fact of the matter is that Mark is now a guy, not a girl. As much as that may suck regarding your attraction but that's just how it is.

    Also judging by your experience with the girl, it could be wise to date outside of your friendship circle because there's just too much drama lol
    You quoted and are talking to the wrong guy, lovey.

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    Originally Posted by rubixcube19
    You quoted and are talking to the wrong guy, lovey.
    No I just said "lol" at some stuff you said rubix.

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