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Thread: Life in the Driverís Seat (extended)

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    Going to Wasaga Beach with my dear love. Day alone together 🥰😘

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    I could spend the rest of my life on a beach. Sooooooooo elemental.

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    I am so glad he is starting to push back. He is pushing back for our sake. He told his sister and his mom, look I have a family and my wife is not going anywhere. We have been together 30 years you guys need to ď get itĒ. You know we are a couple like mom and dad are a couple . I am doing our plan tomorrow with MY WIFE.

    You guys left the UK and came to Canada and left your families there and didnít even worry about it . Your parents got sick went to old age homes and died . You werenít even there .

    His mom is coming to the realization they need a home .

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    Maybe...: I think she is blowing smoke to shut people up . My son said he is not visiting them until they go to a home .

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    My friend J was bit by a poisonous spider and is now on antibiotics.

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    Another tension headache. I have to work on my own today as no one can work with this headache God help me.

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    There are days I wish we could sue people who bring such stress to our lives . I have been suffering from panic attacks again . Even my medication and CBD oil isnít keeping control of this crap . Between my aunt dying ,my dad my other aunt ,my mom falling and my in-laws Iím about ready to go right back sh.t crazy . And the entitled arrogance of my In-law family is unbelievable like theyíre the only old people in the universe . We work 1 million hours a day have no time to ourselves or each other . This is all starting to get really old .

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    Well, my father-in-law wonít be going home probably ever . It seems part of the reason he fell is a mild stroke and they are sending him permanently into long term care .

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Well, my father-in-law wonít be going home probably ever . It seems part of the reason he fell is a mild stroke and they are sending him permanently into long term care .
    Sorry to hear about the stroke.

    But also glad that he will be in a care center - in a sense, a relief?. Now the MIL may need to either have daily caregivers in her home, or find assistive living too.

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    Originally Posted by luminousone
    Sorry to hear about the stroke.

    But also glad that he will be in a care center - in a sense, a relief?. Now the MIL may need to either have daily caregivers in her home, or find assistive living too.
    Yes, it is a relief for everyone I think but him because he doesnít know what is happening nor does he like it . He wants to watch his sports all day and it isnít happening . He has also gone on a hunger strike until someone lets him out. And he wants family there 24/7 which isnít possible. The change is horrible in his estimation. He has dementia and Parkinsonís and PTSD from being in a war when he was a child and change has never been his favourite . And when faced with anything he didnít want to do he always bullied people into submission and this isnít working out well for him in his estimation .

    My mother -in-law finds it a relief. She has had a hard time looking after him. But I think sheís going to find it a bit shocking because he was always her protector and buffer against the world .

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