Originally Posted by reinventmyself
IMO it's not black and white. But I respect others opinions about it.
I get it - but speaking from my own experience. If she had "parented" her husband and only has lived on her own for 8 weeks -- take this time to spread her wings, do things she couldn't do married. have the "girls" over, decorate how you want. Go away for a week and don't tell anyone or answer to anybody.