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Thread: Is this a typical scenario for an exceptionally attractive guy in high school?

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    Originally Posted by maew
    And here lies the truth to this convoluted thread... You have a crush on him and lack the confidence to approach him.
    Was going to say the same thing.

    You're in a classic bind: your interest in this guy is totally superficial, but you don't want to be another superficial girl chasing him, and don't quite have that potent combo of insecurity, sass, and thirst that makes others pinch his pecs and run away giggling in hopes that he'll validate their performance with sex and even, who knows, something like love. Swoon. Sigh. Etc.

    And yet, here you are, a little jealous of the pec-pinchers, the ones who have rolled around for a night a few weeks with the 6'6" human mannequin. OMG! Cray cray! What would that be like? What would that feel like? The hormones are curious.

    It's not mysterious. Hot people are hot. They get attention. Some feed off it long past the point when it is remotely hot, no matter the shape of their jawline, their derrière. What is a very fruitful chapter in adolescence—pick of the litter, while being boring af!—becomes a more tragic look as the years wear on, where your pickings are limited to fellow attention-junkies who got the outside confused with what's past the skin.

    A dude like this? At 18? Odds are he may be in this purple patch of life for a good long while. If that appeals to you—for a night, a week, as some kind of hormone-quenching challenge—go for it. Fun is fun. That you're hesitant about the dude speaks well for you—that there's something in you that's built a little differently from the others in the peanut gallery with the tight tops and tight leggings. In the long run, I think that's the thing that's going to serve you well, but it doesn't mean you can't skim around on the surface a bit.

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    Yes. Beautiful people get more attention.

    Were you a little perturbed that he never asked you out?

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    Originally Posted by loyal
    Yes. Beautiful people get more attention.

    Were you a little perturbed that he never asked you out?
    Well not really, since I never saw him ask anyone out himself.
    This is what was quite funny about him - he never seemed to ask anyone out himself, it was always the girls who approached him and asked him out, and he seemed totally lazy the whole time.

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    Under Review.

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