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    Ex come back

    Hey guys. My ex who we broke up about two years ago cause she developed feelings for another guy recently contacted me wanting to see me. We had not spoken for almost 1 and half years but we got talking recently. She confessed to me she still loves me even though I found out she was involved with a married guy even though she assures me she ended the affair. Am crazy about this woman she is the one who I must say makes my heart skip a bit hairs on my body stand every time I hear her name let alone see her . But here is my predicament recently we got to talking and she confessed she was a few months pregnant n the dude responsible is not in the picture and he doesn't know abt the married guy. She wants me to be the father of her kid in every aspect. I honestly love this lady but a kid in the pic I feel is to soon but I also don't want to let her go

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    Originally Posted by RemEd
    Hey guys. My ex who we broke up about two years ago cause she developed feelings for another guy recently contacted me wanting to see me. We had not spoken for almost 1 and half years but we got talking recently. She confessed to me she still loves me even though I found out she was involved with a married guy even though she assures me she ended the affair. Am crazy about this woman she is the one who I must say makes my heart skip a bit hairs on my body stand every time I hear her name let alone see her . But here is my predicament recently we got to talking and she confessed she was a few months pregnant n the dude responsible is not in the picture and he doesn't know abt the married guy. She wants me to be the father of her kid in every aspect. I honestly love this lady but a kid in the pic I feel is to soon but I also don't want to let her go
    uhhmmm... No?!
    She was cheating on you with a married man? And wants you raise their love child?
    I get you love her, but she really doesn't value anyone but herself. If she did she would not have cheated on you. She would not have messed with another women's husband and she wouldn't selfishly look you up because she's running out of options.

    These are the consequences of her actions.
    You take her in, she'll ultimately have no respect for you for having done so.

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    She didn't cheat in me she got involved with the married guy but we were not together then

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    Originally Posted by RemEd
    She didn't cheat in me she got involved with the married guy but we were not together then
    My ex who we broke up about two years ago cause she developed feelings for another guy < that's cheating - or- you changed to course of events

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    So both married guy and baby daddy guy dumped her and now she comes running to you? Don't get used again.
    Originally Posted by RemEd
    she confessed she was a few months pregnant n the dude responsible is not in the picture and he doesn't know abt the married guy.

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    This woman is a hot mess who's only coming to you now because she has nobody else to be a dad to her kid.

    The married guy sure won't. Her baby's dad isn't interested. That leaves you, her third choice but probably the only sucker who will fall for it.

    Wake up, my man.

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    I'm just wondering what's wrong with your body. Re: heart skipping and hair standing. She seems an unusual choice. I think if you're this deep into it and can't seem to keep to yourself, anyone telling you otherwise isn't going to matter at all and you already know deep down the answers to all your questions. She's not good for you.

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    She sounds like a real prize!

    What are you thinking! She dumps you for someone else-reason to NEVER speak to her again- and she also gets involved with a married man. She sounds great!

    Now, that these guys are done with her, she has coming running back to her ex doormat, to help raise her kid. Does she even know who the father is?

    Where is your self respect! You should have blocked her long ago. You are a fool if you consider a return. She does not respect you.

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    In my best ESPN voice

    C'mon man!!

    Are you for real man? This chick comes running to you to be her baby daddy after her partner and other man won't do it? You seriously need your head examined if you give this more than two seconds of thought... Sheesh... Run dude thank me later for saving your life.

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    She just wants to use you to financially support and raise her kid.

    I bet my paycheck if you are gullible enough to take her back, she'll be cheating on you as soon as she loses the baby weight. Leaving you home to watch the kid while she "visits a friend".

    Please, don't be her sucker.

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