Originally Posted by Wiseman2
Why is she no longer your friend? Has she always been a rival or a thorn in your side for some reason? Do you know her through your bf or were you friends before?

Find and contact her on social media to "catch up". Do not make accusations, just get a sense of things, since you feel the truth is not available from your bf...
She's no longer my friend because 8 years ago she made her feelings to my partner known and told him and my other friends that he'll be better with her. I had kids with my partner at the time. I told her this is the ultimate betrayal, but she told me she loved him. We ended our friendship. I contacted her after finding her number on my partners phone. She said nothing happened and has since refused to speak to me. I trusted my parter, but he keeps saying he doesn't know how the messages got there. It doesn't make sense.