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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Yes cut to the chase and ask her out don't become a text buddy or send videos etc.
    Agree you certainly don't want to become a "text buddy" -- there should be a balance, between good dates and some fun texting in between to keep it alive till your next date.

    Not all day, every day, that's too much. And can be exhausting.

    But having the right balance between the two is key and when the chemistry is good, it becomes almost effortless.

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    Originally Posted by firstluvstruck
    I actually regretted saying that but got busy with work and couldn't edit. Yes, I do like the back and forth in between dates.
    So then, yeah, I am a little butthurt I didn't get a response. It wasn't something fun or witty though.
    I've wanted to send some interesting articles/funny vids but i think my next text will be asking her out?
    Dude, tease her a bit, make her laugh! Give her shyt, in a playful fun way!

    Banter, play, have fun with it! Use emojis so she knows you're teasing.

    If it's your nature, then be you!

    Don't be walking on eggshells, women can sense that and its a turn off.

    Most women are all about emotions, so stir her emotions a bit.

    And yeah, ask her out!!

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    firstluv, what did your last text say?

    I'll tell you if it was a "yawn" or something a woman would want to respond to.

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    Lol. "Hey! It was how is your weekend?" 😑

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    Originally Posted by firstluvstruck
    Lol. "Hey! It was how is your weekend?" 😑
    Did you text lol or was that just for us?

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    For us. Laughing at myself

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    Next time try and be a bit more creative. Sounded a bit bland tbh, sorry.

    Then again, I suppose if she were really into you, she would have just been happy you texted at all and responded.

    Just going from what I would do though. When I'm really into a guy, he could send me a wink emoji and Id be happy. Probably send him a wink back, or two winks. A little flirt. Lol

    So don't know my friend, fact she has not responded, she sounds lukewarm at best.

    Wait a week and text again, ask her out, if she gives excuse why she can't, let it go.

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    That's my thinking exactly. There's an event this Saturday that seems really fun. Gonna go regardless.
    I'll text her tomorrow about it (in a fun way). I'd rather rip the bandaid off quickly if she has, in fact, changed her mind.

    That text was definitely bland, can't argue with that.

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    Originally Posted by firstluvstruck
    That's my thinking exactly. There's an event this Saturday that seems really fun. Gonna go regardless.
    I'll text her tomorrow about it (in a fun way). I'd rather rip the bandaid off quickly if she has, in fact, changed her mind.

    That text was definitely bland, can't argue with that.
    The reason I said wait a week is to give her a chance to wonder about you -- wonder if you are still interested.

    And to send her the silent message you are not some chump who is gonna chase her a** even when she blows off your message, no matter how bland it was.

    I mean you asked her a direct question, my belief is if she were into you, she would have responded back.

    I know you really like her but she sounds lukewarm and ignored your message, so best to leave her with the impression you have other options, do you?

    If she does not respond by tomorrow, ask another girl.

    Let this girl be for a bit, make contact next week.

    That's my advice anyway, good luck and let us know what happens!

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    I'll have to think about this. Will let you know!

    Edit: Yes I could ask other girls.

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