Left for no real reason

[Wiseman2]

Anything given during the course of a relationship is considered a gift unless otherwise stated in writing. Whether it's money you gave her or things for her kids,etc. You sound bitter and paranoid. First you claim she suddenly ran out "without any warning"...that's doubtful. Now you claim she stole money and stuff from your house?

Then you claim you love her and want her back. Then you claim you're so depressed you can't go back to an empty house. What all this spells out is that in less than one year this woman did not totally mess up your life and all these ex gf's you're still chatting with also left for some reason as well. This particular woman may be a mess but now she's gone so rejoice.

While you would like to paint her as this thieving nasty mess and yourself as this victim, it's time to ask yourself how long your life has been a mess with or without her. And now you're backtracking through your black book and crying on your exgfs' shoulders for validation.

She left with owing me a good amount of money also:( and also took things out of the house while u was at work.

[To nice]

She did run out without warning sure we had a bit of a disagreement just before heading to work. And before that everything was good. She started packing as soon as I left for work that morning.

Yes I covered a lot of things because she was in financial trouble for a bit. It was I will pay you back as soon as I can. So I took care of things. No questions asked.

I asked the question when she was moving if she was leaving the stuff in the house that was already there. Her reply was I'm bowring a few things lol never asked. It was easy for her because she had a moving company in. Just take what she wanted. Who knows what is left. It's funny she had no money but could afford all of this in just a few days.


Yes it sucks she is gone but also she did this to me. I trusted her

[boltnrun]

When you want someone so badly you move them and their kids in quickly and give them money...it's time to look closely at your motivations.

Was it HER you wanted...or just someone to fill voids in your life?

[To nice]

Anything given during the course of a relationship is considered a gift unless otherwise stated in writing. Whether it's money you gave her or things for her kids,etc. You sound bitter and paranoid. First you claim she suddenly ran out "without any warning"...that's doubtful. Now you claim she stole money and stuff from your house?

Then you claim you love her and want her back. Then you claim you're so depressed you can't go back to an empty house. What all this spells out is that in less than one year this woman did not totally mess up your life and all these ex gf's you're still chatting with also left for some reason as well. This particular woman may be a mess but now she's gone so rejoice.

While you would like to paint her as this thieving nasty mess and yourself as this victim, it's time to ask yourself how long your life has been a mess with or without her. And now you're backtracking through your black book and crying on your exgfs' shoulders for validation.

When you want someone so badly you move them and their kids in quickly and give them money...it's time to look closely at your motivations.

Was it HER you wanted...or just someone to fill voids in your life?

It was her I wanted i wasn't looking when i found her. I had no problem living the way I was. I was happy. Meeting her just added to it. I just thought it was right. It wasn't out of desperation.

[SherrySher]

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Why post two threads on the same subject?

[Wiseman2]

Husband or new bf? Is it possible she moved back in with her husband?

It's funny she had no money but could afford all of this in just a few days.

[To nice]

At this point I dont know

[ThatwasThen]

I'm sorry you are hurting but frankly, she is looking more and more like a con artist. Just how long did you know her before you let her in?

[To nice]

I knows now way to soon. Its just felt right especially after we went on vacation together. We just hit it off so good together. It wasn't out of desperation. I wasn't even looking

So to be honest it was only a few months. Only reason why was she needed a place. But at the same time it did feel right.

[Wiseman2]

Did she move back in with her husband?

So to be honest it was only a few months. Only reason why was she needed a place.