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I'm 29 year old women, seeking a man no younger than 39 years old possibly additional 10 years on that. I'm not very well off and I believe having the extra income from a man would benefit me in life for various reasons. I would love someone to lead me in life and as a result having a man at least 10 years on me, if not an additional 10 years on that because of that gap believe that has more life experience ahead of me so he can lead me to new experiences, I've never had a bf before, how about's do I go about getting one of this criteria.

 

Ps. I am Autistic, have trouble looking after myself, with communication even (sometimes). I have lots of interests from animals, to current world affairs to politics, to culture to alsorts of interesting things to talk about, help????

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Sorry but I think coming from the mindset of being a gold digger is not going to help you find a good relationship. Also at the end of the day YOU have to bring a lot to the relationship too. What do you think you can bring to the relationship? Are you intelligent? Do you have a job at all? Are you beautiful? Normally rich men can have their pick of women so unless you look like a model or have some other great attributes then I'm not sure if you'll succeed at this idea.

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So are you looking for a certain type of, um, "job" that will expose you to wealthy older men?

 

If you're planning to trade sex for financial assistance, that "job" does exist. It's not entirely legal, but you know...it does happen.

 

Well where I live prostitution in a brothel (not street walking) is actually legal. And being a sugar baby is also legal. OP said though that she's looking for a man only about ten years older than her. Usually a "sugar daddy" would be quite a lot older, maybe like 20-30 years older. If he's not a lot older then there is something else that has to draw him to the woman other than her age. Usually it's because she's very attractive. I mean let's get real here, if a man has a lot of money why would he want an unattractive, older woman? That's why I'm saying that not all women can succeed at gold digging.

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Setting out after anyone based on those guidelines is asking for trouble. I can't tell if this is a trolling post or if this is a legitimate question for an online forum. If you have to ask how to obtain specific dates based on those criteria in particular, I have to wonder if you're cut out for it in the first place. I'm sorry but this isn't adding up. Please take care of yourself if you are real. You're not going to find a lot of people who are sympathetic to your cause and those that will be may be of the wrong or lesser caliber of person.

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There are many sugar daddy / baby websites that cater to such relationships. Of course you do realize that you have to bring something to the relationship OP? Like you can't just expect to have someone take care of you without offering something in return beyond being able to have an interesting conversation.

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You better be drop dead gorgeous if you're going to be digging for gold. You have to bring a lot to the table. The rich guy needs to be able to "justify" blowing a lot of money on you and supporting you. Just being able to have interesting conversations is not enough. You need to be conventionally, drop-dead gorgeous and you also should be ready to bear his children. At 29, you may be considered "too old" for some of these guys.

 

Sorry to be a bit harsh and blunt, but that's the truth.

 

If you are on the spectrum, I echo what Sera said - can you get on disability? I have folks on the spectrum in my family and there are MANY resources out there to help people and their families. You don't have to struggle alone. You don't have to troll yourself out to find some rich geezer. If you are having trouble managing your own life, you can and should get help that is out there for you. The answer is not to find a man to tie yourself to.

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Follow the money trail. Where are you at life? Succeed in your own right. Have a great job, ascend, succeed and go where all the high income earners are. That's how you rise into their society and it's the social circle you will be mingling with.

 

Join clubs whether it's through sports or special interests activities. Volunteer in the community and do good charitable works. You have to put yourself out there to meet the right type of people.

 

Also, make yourself attractive. Workout, watch what you eat, immerse yourself in intellectual pursuits, have hobbies, boost your self confidence and be independent. Be your own person and on the fast track in life. That's what I did.

 

I'm not a gold digger. However, I hail from an unfortunate background and married up by moving up in the world through work. Eventually, I began associating where the winners were. I wouldn't say it was my original plan at the time but it ended up happening that way. Birds of a feather flock together.

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I'm 29 year old women, seeking a man no younger than 39 years old possibly additional 10 years on that. I'm not very well off and I believe having the extra income from a man would benefit me in life for various reasons. I would love someone to lead me in life and as a result having a man at least 10 years on me, if not an additional 10 years on that because of that gap believe that has more life experience ahead of me so he can lead me to new experiences, I've never had a bf before, how about's do I go about getting one of this criteria.

 

Ps. I am Autistic, have trouble looking after myself, with communication even (sometimes). I have lots of interests from animals, to current world affairs to politics, to culture to alsorts of interesting things to talk about, help????

Posting but haven't read any other replies so sorry if this has already been mentioned.

 

Believe it or not: There are online dating sites that cater to the sugar baby/sugar daddy dynamic. I suggest you google using those terms and put the word "forums" after it and you will find a site.

 

Be cautious and always meet any date/meetup in a public place until you really get to know him.

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I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 27, and then after that hadn't had one until this month and I'm 35. You shouldn't put arbitrary limits on yourself, and finding a 39 year old boyfriend is probably not going to be any easier than finding one who is your age.

 

Struggling with life and finances I also don't think what you are seeking is the best solution to those problems. Do you have any kind of support system? Friends and family?

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Having a disability doesn't give you the right to use people for money. Your quest for a sugar daddy won't be filled here as this is not a sugar daddy dating or escort service site.

I also feel like older man will treat me better and like a barbie doll/princess/something special that's the reason behind wanting an older man too, I can't find any men out there?
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My millionaire boyfriend says he will put me in his will but I can't have any of his money now and I wouldn't want it as I'm financially independent.

 

Don't rely on men for money it creates problems in your life. Make your own financial independence, this is not the middle ages!

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