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    Yes, this guy wants sex, and he just sounds like trouble in every which way! Iíd block this uncouth animal and stay away!!
    He doesnít respect you.

    How old are you? And how old is mister fodder-mouth?

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    He was letting out his fishing line to see if you would bite at the 'bait.' Its a way to gauge how willing you are going to be to sex within the next date.

    How did you respond to his lame game?

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    it soundslike he just wants sex from u and nothing else he should not really be telling u that

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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    He was letting out his fishing line to see if you would bite at the 'bait.' Its a way to gauge how willing you are going to be to sex within the next date.

    How did you respond to his lame game?
    I agree with this^, he was testing your boundaries.

    Does not mean sex is "all" he wants, it would be impossible to even know that until you both spend more time together.

    But for now, yes he is attracted to you and as such, wants sex. And testing you.

    If you're not ready for sex just now, maintain your boundaries and suggest dates outside the house.

    And to echo TwT's question, how did you respond?

    Yeah his comment was a bit lame, but I've heard much worse!

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    I think his focus is sex and he lacks manners and common sense.

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    What is he, 12?

    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    It's your job not to be steered into a hard-on/ overly sexual conversation or situation.
    You don't need to walk through landmines. Forget trying to steer out of that curve. He just showed you what he's all about.

    Advice from grandma: "The problem isn't that snakes will cross your path, they will. The problem comes when you don't respect yourself enough to avoid picking up the snake to play with it."

    I'd just stop taking his calls or messages and move on to date someone with common sense.

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    Thankyou for your reply, we went for a long walk and ended up sitting by a river outside so all very public.

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    Thanks, I think thatís the advice Iíve been given by the majority here! Iím early 20s and heís 29 in a few months.

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