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Thread: Bit off more than I can chew, too soon?

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    Platinum Member lostandhurt's Avatar
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    So I read through your other threads and see a pattern. Perhaps you should read them again too.

    You are 42 but you are acting like you are 21 (emotionally anyways)

    You have E.D.

    You have a FWB thing going on.

    You have broken up with women only to circle back around later and try and reconnect.

    What I see is a person that doesn't know what they want, or thinks they know what they want until they get it and THEN decide it isn't what they want.

    During all your escapades people are being hurt. I think it is time you stop dating and figure out exactly what you want for your life. Continuous dating, Relationship, FWB, Marriage or what ever but you need to know so you stop jerking other people around.

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    "In a world where what we want is only what we want until it's ours..."

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    Really selfish and hurtful patterns, OP!

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    Wow, you are just all over the place like a train wreck. You are having a lot of trouble with relationships. I would recommend counseling.

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    One has been a FWB, and I'm good ending the sex, but value the friendship part in her.
    You can get rid of her easily by just telling her this. No healthy woman would stick around for it.

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    Yes, tell her everything you wrote here about still wanting the FWB around and how you think you will always have grass is greener syndrome and you don't think you will ever fully commit to one woman or will want to...she'll be running for the hills.

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