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    Originally Posted by reinventmyself

    It feels like it becomes a more serious issue than warranted. I'd wonder why you hadn't mentioned it in the moment before
    Great point, I think that’s exactly what would happen. Thank you for your insights.

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    Originally Posted by shoestrap420
    You have a good point. I seem to have some communication problems. I don’t know why I feel nervous discussing the specifics and mechanics of sex..
    I don't think you are alone.
    It's often awkward in the beginning but practice, get used to it and reap the benefits ;}

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    Ok... two thoughts...

    1) Maybe I’m also doing it wrong - but I don’t really see how you can be on your hands and knees, while arching your back (which takes muscles), while something is pushing up against you for an extended period of time AND be comfortable. Throw some pillows under her stomach for her to lean on. That’s my answer. Lol!

    2) what’s wrong with showing her that picture? “Hey honey - look what I came across on the internet tosay. Do you think we are doing it wrong? Wanna try?”. I don’t see what’s wrong with that. At least then she’s in on the experiment and can provide her feedback.

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    Originally Posted by RedDress
    Ok... two thoughts...

    1) Maybe I’m also doing it wrong - but I don’t really see how you can be on your hands and knees, while arching your back (which takes muscles), while something is pushing up against you for an extended period of time AND be comfortable. Throw some pillows under her stomach for her to lean on. That’s my answer. Lol!

    2) what’s wrong with showing her that picture? “Hey honey - look what I came across on the internet tosay. Do you think we are doing it wrong? Wanna try?”. I don’t see what’s wrong with that. At least then she’s in on the experiment and can provide her feedback.
    Chest down, butt up! Then you won't have the back issue

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    Originally Posted by WithLove
    Chest down, butt up! Then you won't have the back issue
    Yeah - that works too but it’s not what the picture shows.

    Actually, I think I read everything wrong (including the picture). You actually want her to do the opposite of “arching” her back. That’s what you don’t want her to do. (Arching is sticking her back in the air)

    Edit: Ahhh... maybe i’m generally confused. To me “arching” means curving it in the air. Show her the pic, OP. Will be much easier 😂🤣

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    Originally Posted by RedDress
    Ok... two thoughts...

    1) Maybe I’m also doing it wrong - but I don’t really see how you can be on your hands and knees, while arching your back (which takes muscles), while something is pushing up against you for an extended period of time AND be comfortable. Throw some pillows under her stomach for her to lean on. That’s my answer. Lol!

    2) what’s wrong with showing her that picture? “Hey honey - look what I came across on the internet tosay. Do you think we are doing it wrong? Wanna try?”. I don’t see what’s wrong with that. At least then she’s in on the experiment and can provide her feedback.
    It is my understanding that ‘arch your back’, something I have been told, ( it can be sexy to guide, doesn’t have to be awkward) means to arch your behind so essentially your back goes down and your behind rises giving the other person better access.

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    Originally Posted by WithLove
    Chest down, butt up! Then you won't have the back issue
    That’s my go to position for doggy... that way my arms don’t get tired

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    Originally Posted by maew
    That’s my go to position for doggy... that way my arms don’t get tired
    Ok. . I wasn't going to say it, but me too :)

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    Originally Posted by WithLove
    Next time you do it, just say "Arch your back for me". Easy peasy!
    I wouldn't appreciate being told to do something; it should be a suggestion. *Ask her* if she'd like to give arching her back a go to see if it feels better like that.

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    Originally Posted by maew
    That’s my go to position for doggy... that way my arms don’t get tired
    Isn’t that how everyone does it.

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