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Thread: Is texting this pathetic?

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    Is texting this pathetic?

    There is a girl Iíve known for awhile, she flirted with me way back last semester when we sat beside each other all semester. I was not interested at the time because I believed she had a boyfriend, but she actually had broke up with him. Now, itís 6 months later and I just hung out with her with 1 of my guy friends and 2 other girls at his house. Me and my friend drank some, I had 4 beers so I canít remember specifics but I just remember it was a really fun night. I got to talk to her and the other girls about personal stuff for the first time in awhile, because I hadnít talked to her since last semester. We asked each other about our personal lives, and I made her laugh a bunch of times. After last night, Iíve realized that she is such an amazing smart person and I want to get to know her more. I feel like I want to tell her how I feel about her over text and that I want to get to know her more but Iím not sure if this sounds pathetic or not. She constantly has a lot of other guys after her so I feel like if I text this to her it will make me look needy and expose the fact that I want her! What should I do ?

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    Ask her out one on one. Do not send creepy "I like you" texts.
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    I feel like I want to tell her how I feel about her over text and that I want to get to know her more but Iím not sure if this sounds pathetic or not.

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    Call her and ask her for a date.

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    Agree, ask her out but dont say you like her in a text.

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    NO! Why don't you start by asking her for a date.

    If your aim is to scare her away, then tell her how you feel. I suggest dating for awhile, then telling her.

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    Texting - and other forms of written electronic communication, including, ironically, this message board - has been quite damaging to old-fashioned verbal communication.

    Give her a call to say hi.

    If she sounds happy to hear from you, ask her out.

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    Just ask her out on a date.


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